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PoindexterOglethorpe

(26,842 posts)
3. Glad you've done this for him.
Wed Jan 10, 2024, 01:40 PM
Jan 2024

Too many elderly people insist on staying in their home long after they are no longer capable of living on their own. Starting three years ago, it took my sister and me two years to get our brother and his wife out of their home of some 45 years, into assisted living. It's why I fully intend to move myself into independent/assisted living in the foreseeable future. I'm 75 now, and I'm ready to give up the constraints of home ownership. I'm waiting for My Son The Astronomer to finish his PhD, and depending on where he finds a job, I might well re-locate across the country to be closer to him.

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We moved Dad out of his home today [View all] MissMillie Jan 2024 OP
Sending good vibes to you...such events and transitions are very tough. Drum Jan 2024 #1
I'm sorry. It's hard. Easterncedar Jan 2024 #2
Glad you've done this for him. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2024 #3
hugggggs Holding you in light and love in this difficult time. Your DU family niyad Jan 2024 #4
I'm sorry, MissMillie Diamond_Dog Jan 2024 #5
So sorry this has happened Jilly_in_VA Jan 2024 #6
You have to do what you have to do bucolic_frolic Jan 2024 #7
I'm sorry XanaDUer2 Jan 2024 #8
Black rugs in front of exits... Trueblue Texan Jan 2024 #9
The path leighbythesea2 Mar 2024 #10
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