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Bereavement
In reply to the discussion: My Mother's dead. I don't know what to do. I'll never be able to hug [View all]BumRushDaShow
(144,238 posts)45. Oh no....
Sending all my heartfelt sympathies.
I lost mine 7 years ago and still miss her badly but do "hear" her when she would nag me about stuff, so I go and follow the "orders" (although I still have a ways to go with some stuff).
Try to think of those happy memories and the things that you find yourself doing that she would do. But most importantly, go ahead and grieve and take your time doing it. It can be overwhelming but over time, it will pass.
We are here for you.
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My Mother's dead. I don't know what to do. I'll never be able to hug [View all]
littlemissmartypants
Jun 2022
OP
Yes mine died of cancer too. She was such a good woman. So considerate of peoples feelings
Walleye
Jun 2022
#65
Oh no. Such a deep, crippling pain. (( love to you, little )) So sad. So sorry.
ancianita
Jun 2022
#19
So sorry for your loss. Losing someone that important is devastating. I will miss mine forever
yellowdogintexas
Jun 2022
#69
So sorry for your loss. A little over 32 years for my mom. She fought various cancers
Scalded Nun
Jun 2022
#81
My mother's physical body died in 2016, but she is still with me. Yours is too.
housecat
Jun 2022
#84
Oh honey... I am SO sorry to read this. I lost my mother 18 years ago and trust me when I say that
The_REAL_Ecumenist
Jun 2022
#91