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Silver Gaia

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4. Yes, he was there! An older guy in costume, skinny with a big, grey beard.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 09:11 AM
23 hrs ago

He was at most of the Rainbow Gatherings, too. His name was also John. He and his wife (yes!), Merril Mushroom, were interviewed in a book called "Rebels, Rubyfruit, and Rhinestones" by James Sears. Look for it!

They married as a gay man and a lesbian woman in the late 60s because 1) they really did deeply love each other, and 2) they both wanted to adopt children and have a family, and saw that as a way to do it. And they did! They adopted 4 children and have remained married all these years. We were neighbors in rural Tennessee. They used to babysit for me! They were both movers and shakers, brilliant, magnetic, outspoken, and unique. I feel fortunate to have known them both.

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I am sorry for your loss (and ours as a community). Behind the Aegis Yesterday #1
Yes, he was there! An older guy in costume, skinny with a big, grey beard. Silver Gaia 23 hrs ago #4
Storycorps re Short Mountain Sanctuary ZDU Yesterday #2
Thank you for the link! Silver Gaia 23 hrs ago #6
You are most welcome! ZDU 23 hrs ago #7
This message was self-deleted by its author Silver Gaia Yesterday #3
So sorry IbogaProject 23 hrs ago #5
Thank you. He would have been there for sure. Silver Gaia 23 hrs ago #8
Very cool jfz9580m 23 hrs ago #9
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