General Discussion

His girlfriend got pregnant and had abortion then told him doctor said she couldn’t have any more kids, he believed her and didn’t use birth control. She thought if she got pregnant he would get motivated work more and marry her. Everything went wrong he had a hard time working extra hours and she broke up with him few months before baby was born, moved to Minneapolis from CA and told him he couldn’t see baby. Few years go by (during which he did go sign up for child support) and she wants him to take daughter for 6 months because she has no sitter and money. We all meet and fall in love with my great granddaughter, they live with his sister and her kids same age. All doing good until mom decides to call police and say he kidnapped her since nothing was in writing. He tells cops she told me to take her for 6 months. That was after 5 months .

So cops tell him no charges if he leaves immediately and brings her back which he does. By then he has relationship with her, so few months later last May moves there and has fought for visitation ever since working a warehouse job renting a room.

So no young men do not hold all the power and I fully believe all that happened to my grandson opened him up to listen to the other side.