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Auggie

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Thu Apr 27, 2023, 06:06 PM Apr 2023

Advance Health Care Directive Guidance, anyone? [View all]

Last edited Thu Apr 27, 2023, 06:40 PM - Edit history (1)

Hospitals are asking if I have one. I don't, so I'm in the process of filling one out.

I'm looking for wording that explicitly spells out my wishes and intent. My decision maker, Mrs. Auggie, is cool with what I want, but my bigger concern is any pain-in-the-ass do-gooders, clergy, or administrators that may think they know better.

Me? Stage 3 cancer, operable, but you never know what can happen in an operating room or under anesthesia. If something does occur that renders me helpless, unable to communicate, etc., or become a burden (long-term nursing, feeding tube, breathing machine) I want it known to pull every damn plug and tube and let me die.

Thanks.

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I have one and I'm healthy. It is good to have. Makes you feel better applegrove Apr 2023 #1
I don't have any advice Auggie Diamond_Dog Apr 2023 #2
Thanks Diamond_Dog Auggie Apr 2023 #9
Check your pm's, cilla4progress Apr 2023 #3
Done Auggie Apr 2023 #4
... cilla4progress Apr 2023 #5
Here is one link. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2023 #6
Thanks Auggie Apr 2023 #8
Check the hospital ownership. Catholic hospitals can and do override patients' wishes. cbabe Apr 2023 #7
That's my concern! Auggie Apr 2023 #10
Consult an attorney. Not even the doctor can stop the Catholic cbabe Apr 2023 #11
The social workers can usually provide you with Quakerfriend Apr 2023 #12
+1 Auggie Apr 2023 #14
Look up fivewishes.com. 1WorldHope Apr 2023 #13
Thanks. Discovered it's .org, not .com. Auggie Apr 2023 #15
That makes sense. 1WorldHope Apr 2023 #16
go online and search for WhiteTara Nov 2023 #17
Possibly another important question.. justaprogressive Dec 2023 #18
MrsK andI, kozar Dec 4 #19
Dupe kozar Dec 4 #20
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