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I've got distant support. politicat Jun 2014 #1
I'm glad your situation is "reasonably manageable." Habibi Jun 2014 #2
Blog xecaps Oct 2014 #20
Are you saying that your state somehow pays for assisted living? I don't know what you mean pnwmom Oct 2014 #22
No, the state doesn't pay. We do. Her former state regs put her in LTC. politicat Oct 2014 #24
pretty much alone here Alameda Jun 2014 #3
Do you have any supportive resources? Habibi Jun 2014 #4
Resources for respite: politicat Jun 2014 #5
I think that "first rule of caregiving" is awesome and yet Habibi Jun 2014 #6
What xecaps Oct 2014 #23
Am I sure about what? Habibi Oct 2014 #25
Mostly alone alcina Jul 2014 #7
Vent away! and welcome! Habibi Jul 2014 #8
Thank you, Habibi alcina Jul 2014 #9
Isn't it, though? Habibi Jul 2014 #10
wow xecaps Oct 2014 #21
You hit a sore spot with that -- Hell Hath No Fury Aug 2014 #11
Ugh, I'm sorry for your situation. Habibi Aug 2014 #12
Thanks for the support -- Hell Hath No Fury Oct 2014 #13
Venting is good! Habibi Oct 2014 #15
I live with my grandson and his family. I also get help with some of my care. I get rides to health jwirr Oct 2014 #14
Very important to accept help Habibi Oct 2014 #16
I ended up placing her in a foster care home which I was fortunate enough to have trained myself. jwirr Oct 2014 #17
In so many cases Iwillnevergiveup Oct 2014 #18
I *do* have an Aunt nearby Aerows Oct 2014 #26
Going alone Aerows Oct 2014 #19
im alone... samnsara Apr 2017 #27
My brother lives in town, and recently retired, but... LudwigPastorius Mar 2022 #28
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