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Been there, done that. Texaswitchy May 2021 #1
I feel for you. Mom died 7 years ago but she lived with Alzheimer's for about 15 years before that. alwaysinasnit May 2021 #2
So sorry to hear this jimfields33 May 2021 #3
Yes, look into hiring help. Diamond_Dog May 2021 #4
At the moment, me n Mrs. Glam both work at home. Glamrock May 2021 #5
Some other folks who have gone through this here are offering excellent advice. Diamond_Dog May 2021 #13
Thanks mama. Glamrock May 2021 #35
Taking care of elder people is never easy and not everyone is suited to do it. appleannie1 May 2021 #20
Seriously, start researching nursing homes Freddie May 2021 #6
I second that suggestion spinbaby May 2021 #8
Sorry to her that. I had older parents and lost them a long time ago. I have always been jealous brewens May 2021 #7
I feel for you... pnwest May 2021 #9
Glam, take care of yourself and then the family MerryHolidays May 2021 #10
Respect for taking this on. Just know your limits. Be strong. Give Mrs Glam lots of hugs. BoomaofBandM May 2021 #11
I know what you mean. Buckeye_Democrat May 2021 #12
Support groups MerryHolidays May 2021 #14
I worry about burdening my kids with something like this. CentralMass May 2021 #15
my advice- the sooner the better. mopinko May 2021 #16
It's fucked. I was a long term care nurse for eleven years. ismnotwasm May 2021 #17
I think of you and Mrs. Glam often... MontanaMama May 2021 #18
DON'T try to do this yourself. WinstonSmith4740 May 2021 #19
Here's a suggestion - your area may have an adult daycare center FakeNoose May 2021 #21
The stories I see here are exactly why PoindexterOglethorpe May 2021 #22
that is what Robin Williams had Skittles May 2021 #23
Whatever's going on man just come back and check in with us... diverdownjt May 2021 #24
We had to put my MIL in a nursing home because of Greybnk48 May 2021 #25
Been there done that, Ferryboat May 2021 #26
Look specifically for a memory care facility. StarryNite May 2021 #27
everybody has stories Bmoboy May 2021 #28
That's rough. I had to take care of my grandma who had that. Rizen May 2021 #29
I can relate to what you are going through, my wife's parents have dementia, 90+ years old turbinetree May 2021 #30
My mother didn't have Alzheimer's, but what she had was virtually indistinguishable. BobTheSubgenius May 2021 #31
Take care of her, do all you can for her. Under The Radar May 2021 #32
Yes, it is. Holding you and your family in my heart for strength. n/t TygrBright May 2021 #33
I am so very sorry. jmbar2 May 2021 #34
Rule one: No fucking guilt! flotsam May 2021 #36
Tough times, but, you'll do better than you think. blm May 2021 #37
That is some tough news Glam. Swede May 2021 #38
There's lots of help out there. Facilities with Memory Care units can be excellent resources. littlemissmartypants May 2021 #39
My father-in-law had it leighbythesea2 May 2021 #40
❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️. We are ALL here for you. a kennedy Jun 2021 #41
I hear you. My MIL has dementia, but I don't know if it is Lewy body. Ilsa Jun 2021 #42
I hear you. My MIL, with dementia, has had a string of successive Ilsa Nov 2021 #43
How are you holding up, Glamrock? JudyM Dec 2021 #44
as I read this I wondered onethatcares Jun 2024 #45
I'm scared too XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #46
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