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Sexual Assault Survivors Support

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XanaDUer2

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Wed Mar 20, 2024, 02:08 PM Mar 2024

Told by half-sister father molested me as an infant [View all]

I've cut off contact with her due to her abusive behavior. Maybe her borderline and BPD came from molestation, too. I was told this months ago and, I knee-jerked said, no of course that didn't happen. Now I'm not sure. I'm in my late 50s. No one talked about this then. He was a high-functioning alcoholic.

My mother moved miles away and divorced him. She never took a penny in CS. He made a good good union ny job salary.

Now I'm being told by friends and family that this never happened, and this is something my family came up with to facilitate a divorce and no visitation at all. I remember nothing. I would have been an infant.

How are they so sure this is some made-up bs story from my mothers family? None of the deniers are related to him? Maybe this happened and why i have so many difficulties now mentally and emotionally?

Parents SA their kids everyday. Esp impaired. Im tired of being told this never happened because..? My mother picked up and moved 1500 miles away with the help of her parents. The narrative is my vindictive mother and her family said this? I hope it didn't happen, but I'm never going to know. Everyone is dead

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Either way. What you do know is that you are a survivor. LuvLoogie Mar 2024 #1
Thanks XanaDUer2 Mar 2024 #9
I hope you can find peace... Think. Again. Mar 2024 #2
TY XanaDUer2 Mar 2024 #5
. Think. Again. Mar 2024 #6
I have thoughts, but mainly concern for you being told this by your sister... hlthe2b Mar 2024 #3
She's truly disturbed nt XanaDUer2 Mar 2024 #10
If your mother never told you this and Joinfortmill Mar 2024 #4
Thank you XanaDUer2 Mar 2024 #11
My opinion: Your half-sister is toxic. LoisB Mar 2024 #7
She threw it out in the middle XanaDUer2 Mar 2024 #8
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