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47. Please. He was out of line and it was a righteous hide.

Fri Aug 15, 2014, 10:34 AM

Aug 2014

You can't tell members that they have to be civil here, then expect regular members to get away with incivility. That's what ruins a group, imo.

Set your standards and expect everyone to live up to them. Don't permit calling out or trashing people who don't regularly participate here.

Look, I like elbyranto, but he lets his buttons get pushed then reacts in a way that is uncivil. He doesn't have to do that.

This war between this group and the AA group is juvenile, worthless and self-destructive. No one will win.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] hrmjustin Aug 2014 OP

I think the SoP is fine. kentauros Aug 2014 #1

I know what you mean by the worn out part. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #2

I think that i definitely over reacted - but I also think that some of the people who visited el_bryanto Aug 2014 #3

Well I have made clear to them we will not tolerate further disruptions. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #5

I think the SoP should be amended to add "No assholes." rug Aug 2014 #4

lol. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #6

The SoP is fine as is. okasha Aug 2014 #7

I think they got the message to leave us alone. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #11

There's one who may need to be reminded. okasha Aug 2014 #12

QED okasha Aug 2014 #14

Wait, what? Warren Stupidity Aug 2014 #13

I thought I asked you not to post in here. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #16

So asking a question without any insults or incivility is "disruptive"? Warren Stupidity Aug 2014 #18

Sir for the very last time, and I mean the very last time withdraw from this room. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #20

why? How am I violating the SOP in this discussion? Warren Stupidity Aug 2014 #21

Because you are here to disrupt. you only came in here for meta. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #22

The topic of this post is the SOP of this group. Warren Stupidity Aug 2014 #23

I think he was baited by your very presence. you knew he doesn't post in religion and several hrmjustin Aug 2014 #24

That's why I avoid Religion Union Scribe Aug 2014 #28

I think they do. okasha Aug 2014 #29

Well it was very transparent. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #30

This is as good a time as any to discuss the Martyrdom of Saint Sebastian. rug Aug 2014 #26

Let me put it this way, Warren Fortinbras Armstrong Aug 2014 #40

I see one. rug Aug 2014 #25

On second thought, okasha Aug 2014 #8

lmfao. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #9

Same here! LOL! ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #10

I think the SOP is fine. goldent Aug 2014 #15

Thanks goldent. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #19

Interesting. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #17

To the host. you have two links in your thread that goes to the labels thread. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #27

If the SoP is not amended, Htom Sirveaux Aug 2014 #31

This is an interesting point. I am too tired now to seriously think about this but I will hrmjustin Aug 2014 #32

That's how I've been interpreting it all along. kentauros Aug 2014 #33

I've had positive experiences with all three. Htom Sirveaux Aug 2014 #34

But why react by derailing? kentauros Aug 2014 #35

Like I said, it's natural to react defensively to suspicion and hostility. Htom Sirveaux Aug 2014 #36

Yes, it is natural to react defensively. kentauros Aug 2014 #37

Post removed Post removed Aug 2014 #41

I don't agree. It is obvious when someone comes in to disrupt. cbayer Aug 2014 #38

I think the SOP is fine. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #42

I know I've said this before and it hasn't been popular, cbayer Aug 2014 #39

This is a good point. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #43

I can't imagine why that wouldn't be a popular viewpoint... TreasonousBastard Aug 2014 #45

I appreciate the hosts doing whatever they can to keep this a safe place cbayer Aug 2014 #46

I see the alert police is out in force. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #44

Please. He was out of line and it was a righteous hide. cbayer Aug 2014 #47