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willamette

(182 posts)
11. It's telling
Wed Feb 7, 2024, 12:18 AM
Feb 2024

I find it telling that the problem: "Women can't find men that are emotionally viable" is stated, and absolutely no planning, solution, improvement, or effort is geared towards raising or schooling those men to be an emotional win for the women.

I finally found a solution to getting odd job and gardening help at my house. My ad specified that the applicant had to be a "woke feminist." I got men who said that since they weren't women, they didn't qualify. I reiterated that being a feminist didn't require one to be female. In order to be hired, the applicant had to state, in writing or by voice, "I am a woke feminist." It was delightful to have the gig workers self-select, and I successfully got a few great workers. Not one of the men was able to pronounce the required statement, out loud. You never know what other man might be within earshot.

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I will watch the whole thing later. In the first five minutes, all I heard from niyad Feb 2024 #1
We aren't failing them vercetti2021 Feb 2024 #9
Too many women have either experienced or seen this coming. ancianita Feb 2024 #2
I have heard this theory throughout my life BigmanPigman Feb 2024 #3
He tells us that women look for economic and emotional viability, while men look for attractiveness. Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #4
It's telling willamette Feb 2024 #11
Wow. That is VERY interesting!!! Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #12
It's like learning the words "Open Sesame" willamette Feb 2024 #17
I love this and will use it, thanks for the concept. JudyM Mar 2024 #19
I've thought about adding a line willamette Mar 2024 #20
I love it. JudyM Mar 2024 #21
I've been divorced and happy for the last 51 years. sinkingfeeling Feb 2024 #5
Good for you. I ran away..literally ..from my marriage 14 years ago and will be divorced 12 years this year Deuxcents Feb 2024 #7
One more thing that is not directly answering the video but perhaps this is having a larger effect Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #6
Evolving towards lowering the birthrate is good Envirogal Feb 2024 #14
Nice post, thanks willamette Feb 2024 #8
Society isn't failing them vercetti2021 Feb 2024 #10
But wait! I read in the Washington Post Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #13
I won't be watching the video, my own life is enough life lesson, but K&R and a rec for the title chia Feb 2024 #15
One last observation as I think about this video: we have lots more single men who are sad and lonely Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #16
Huh Chi67 Feb 2024 #18
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