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Scrivener7

(53,431 posts)
2. Loved it! So much in there!
Sat Oct 7, 2023, 09:13 AM
Oct 2023

Just a couple:

1)As a child-free, happy woman, I can attest that women who are child-free and happy routinely arouse rage in others. The strength of that rage is telling. It has always been clear to me that those who denigrate my choices are doing it because, as Kidology says at the end, they very strongly doubt their own choices.

2)Glad she talks about the fetishization of motherhood (though in different words.) Motherhood is too often portrayed as a magical state that bestows supernatural powers as the child exits the womb. As fairy tales are a cultural PR effort to make girls want to marry, the fetishization of motherhood is a PR effort to make women want to bear children. The fact that this PR effort is needed is a clue to the truth: motherhood is astonishingly difficult, often unrewarding, and woe be to the mother (and her children) who doesn’t understand this before she decides to take on the role.

3)She nailed it on the effect of stuffing women back into the homes after WW2. On the women themselves and on the women in every generation that has followed.

4)I do wonder at her comment that older feminists are insisting that women should be married and have children. Admittedly I am not up on social media discussions among feminists, but is this the case?

5)I am so glad I don’t do social media other than DU. Every time I see social media clips here, I walk away thinking the world is almost totally comprised of assholes demanding that everyone be just like them.

6)The nodding woman behind Candace Owens with the Kaiser helmet. Seriously, WTF.

7)So glad you are back, redqueen!!!

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Women don't need to have kids and a husband if they are happier without but the culture Stargazer99 Oct 2023 #1
Yep and it is changing redqueen Oct 2023 #3
Loved it! So much in there! Scrivener7 Oct 2023 #2
Aw thanks :) redqueen Oct 2023 #4
I don't agree with her about how people on the left view young men, but I have seen posters Scrivener7 Oct 2023 #5
No idea how to address that either. redqueen Oct 2023 #17
those were my two. nothing solid to give a clue or understanding what she was talking about. LizBeth Oct 2023 #12
I guess she has discussed those in other videos redqueen Oct 2023 #18
I do not "wonder" about #4-- I think it is intensely ERRONEOUS... hlthe2b Oct 2023 #6
It does seem pretty out there to me. But as I said, I'm not up on social media. Scrivener7 Oct 2023 #7
The latter is most likely. We've seen it here on DU recently. hlthe2b Oct 2023 #8
Yes. I so don't get it. Scrivener7 Oct 2023 #9
+1 LizBeth Oct 2023 #13
i am curious about 4 too. i am not seeing where that comes from. LizBeth Oct 2023 #11
This message was self-deleted by its author Scrivener7 Oct 2023 #14
Chose to be "the village" for two beloved Scrivener7 Oct 2023 #15
haha, as far as edit. i was older marry and kids and i could have easily seen myself LizBeth Oct 2023 #19
interesting. LizBeth Oct 2023 #10
I'm at a loss, I really don't know what she's referring to redqueen Oct 2023 #16
i feel, that there are a lot of educated, young women that have bought in the stereotype LizBeth Oct 2023 #20
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