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vlyons

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10. If he can't let go of old grudges
Wed Feb 25, 2015, 01:15 PM
Feb 2015

and obsesses over how "she done him wrong," then he is incapable of forgiveness. We are all of us damaged goods, disappointed in relationships of love, family, and friends. We have all of us failed people, who loved and trusted us. No one is perfect. Forgiveness is liberating. It's opens the space to something/someone new. If he continually gripes about exes, then his mind is immature, and his heart blocked. If he can't forgive his exes, then he can't forgive you, when you mess us. And mess up, we will, because we are all of us imperfect human beings. We are sometimes are irrational, make bad choices, get depressed and anxious. If you find a guy, who can forgive and who can quickly drop grudges, and laugh at silly mistakes, he's a gem.

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