History of Feminism

She's often tired or not feeling good about herself. She often gives a nonverbal answer that he takes as a no--is she asleep when he asks?

So, here's the real question: for her husband, is sex about him or them both? His wife has body image issues (feels gross, etc.), so it doesn't sound like he is doing anything to help her feel better about herself, instead just focusing on himself. Methinks she'd say yes more if he worked on making her feel like the most sexy, beautiful woman in the world and didn't wait until she was half-asleep to ask.