History of Feminism

I would love having the option to not choose either male or female, but something that is neither.

However, I wonder if they will they allow someone biologically born female bodied to choose "male", or would that person have to choose the 3rd option? (Is the third option a catchall for anybody who doesn't want to choose the gender associated with their gender assigned at birth based on biology?)

IF you can choose any of the three with no restriction, this is great.

But IF they are dumping everyone who chooses to NOT IDENTIFY as the gender they were assigned at birth into the 3rd "other" category, not so cool.

(In other words, I feel a person assigned female at birth who now identifies as male should not be forced to "otherize" themselves into the 3rd category, they should be able to choose "Male".) (Also of course same in reverse for born/assigned male, now identifies as female.)

For me, I would LOVE LOVE LOVE having a 3rd category available. It is painful to be forced to choose one or the other when I don't recognize gender as a binary thing. It feels like a lie every time I check off the "F" box just because it matches my body.

My essential response to "Male or Female?" (for me) is just "No."