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nomorenomore08

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97. I don't know how old you are, but sadly I think many of your assumptions about younger folks

Fri Dec 20, 2013, 07:13 PM

Dec 2013

are probably correct. Lack of real human connection is certainly part of the problem as well - and the prescribed gender roles that still exist in some form, simply add another layer of alienation to the whole mess.

And I say this as a 29-year-old who "never got dates" and still managed not to turn into an MRA...

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So I was talking about porn with some young women ... (WARNING! This is a HoF thread!) [View all] redqueen Dec 2013 OP

(WARNING! This is a HoF thread!)... lmFao. accommodate my ass. now, i will read. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #1

I'm taking responsibility! redqueen Dec 2013 #2

It is your duty after all! xulamaude Dec 2013 #5

ya, well, did you? i challenge that. i see no note telling eveyrone to NOT rec. hey wait.... seabeyond Dec 2013 #6

Fuck no I won't try to protect their precious eyes. redqueen Dec 2013 #33

dont know that i saw. probably. i know she did a funny. ya, fuck it. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #34

Bwahahahaha ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #57

Yeah, but I'm rec-ing anyway! Even though I'm not supposed to. Squinch Dec 2013 #70

Rosebud Porn??? ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2013 #3

Yeah, I'll send you. a PM. redqueen Dec 2013 #8

Okay ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2013 #10

It's really nasty 1Strong JustAnotherGen Dec 2013 #36

please PM me or I will HAVE to google it. I can't just let that alone, rq. Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #11

Ok... redqueen Dec 2013 #19

I am in wound care. Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #21

Some of the women in my radfem groups are nurses... redqueen Dec 2013 #22

oh yeah ... it takes a lot to gross me out. that is why when I think: Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #25

Yep redqueen Dec 2013 #28

exactly. - Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #31

"I suspect you of baffling them with bullshit" xulamaude Dec 2013 #41

Oh, my god! It's about certain stomas? Squinch Dec 2013 #72

No, not a certain type of stoma... redqueen Dec 2013 #91

I looked up the urban dictionary. Ugh. Squinch Dec 2013 #92

I'd guess it has to do with deflowering a virgin BainsBane Dec 2013 #66

I was just going to google it MuseRider Dec 2013 #4

I hope more women speak up about these things. redqueen Dec 2013 #12

dines heard it across the nations at colleges, years ago. attacked as dworkinnite. voice silenced. seabeyond Dec 2013 #14

generally speaking, just about every man is going to have some exposure geek tragedy Dec 2013 #7

Well said. redqueen Dec 2013 #13

I don't know how old you are, but sadly I think many of your assumptions about younger folks nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #97

Going through dry stretches doesn't turn people into MRAs, thankfully, otherwise geek tragedy Dec 2013 #98

Ha! That's a good one. I'll bet they'd like to think they really have that much support, though. nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #101

my youngest niece said no to porn. if man does porn, she does not do him. my oldest niece seabeyond Dec 2013 #9

Your boys will be grateful men some day. nt geek tragedy Dec 2013 #15

works both ways and we already are, lol. but, ya. they are only beginning to see all the seabeyond Dec 2013 #16

The saddest thing about this, to me, redqueen Dec 2013 #17

i dont know redq, just seems like that is not doing our job. i had a mother tell me.... she has to seabeyond Dec 2013 #20

I agree, it's a complete abdication... redqueen Dec 2013 #23

nothing bothers me. all conversation, and thinking is a must, is welcome. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #29

I think that a lot of mothers haven't a clue as to what's going on xulamaude Dec 2013 #27

Clearly we need millions more radical feminist moms! redqueen Dec 2013 #30

but. and i agree. i was 33 and 36. but, part of parenting is being informed. i like to be a step seabeyond Dec 2013 #32

Exactly, they've been told for decades that porn is great! All consenty and awesome! redqueen Dec 2013 #37

This. CrispyQ Dec 2013 #50

My family thought itself pretty hip and artsy xulamaude Dec 2013 #59

At some point ... would this be a good film to discuss ... Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #18

Definitely. redqueen Dec 2013 #24

I have no doubt ... I, for one, would be interested in the Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #26

Rec #5 JustAnotherGen Dec 2013 #35

you're ornery. i LUV... lol. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #38

And full of mischief JustAnotherGen Dec 2013 #39

i have done this already, but think it appropriate for you too, and a fav. seabeyond Dec 2013 #40

I thought it took 10. Did it change? Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #42

glass flowing over, on its way, wink. lol. ya. 10. seabeyond Dec 2013 #43

Look JustAnotherGen Dec 2013 #44

i had it whispered, but... seabeyond Dec 2013 #45

First thing I DID was google rosebud porn. ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #46

Outstanding post. --nt CrispyQ Dec 2013 #53

Exactly. It's not the "sex" part that's the problem, never has been. It's everything *but* the sex nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #99

+1000 smirkymonkey Dec 2013 #105

Pro-tip Google "Urban dictionary rosebud" intaglio Dec 2013 #47

For what it's worth I suspect that live porn of all sorts may be dying intaglio Dec 2013 #48

Yes ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #49

I've always thought that the best body mod for a man intaglio Dec 2013 #51

Well, It could have its advantages I suppose ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #54

I can't say the idea really grabs me. Jackpine Radical Dec 2013 #61

... ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #86

I got no clue what rosebud porn is-- Jackpine Radical Dec 2013 #52

lol lol. i hear ya, dude. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #55

Put it this way ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #56

I thought Rosebud was a sled. Jackpine Radical Dec 2013 #58

It's better this way ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #60

There are a couple of 'clues' in this thread that can xulamaude Dec 2013 #62

I don't want to know very badly. Or at all. I'm not into gross. Jackpine Radical Dec 2013 #63

... ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #64

I have my own gross interests BainsBane Dec 2013 #76

This is kind of interesting. I wonder how many of us who frequent HoF are medical professionals. Squinch Dec 2013 #79

I'm not BainsBane Dec 2013 #81

I'm having a little chuckle here: Squinch Dec 2013 #82

What's even worse BainsBane Dec 2013 #85

Which is more fun? Squinch Dec 2013 #87

Yeah, that's where it's at BainsBane Dec 2013 #89

That's always been an accurate indicator for me. If I say I'm going to be somewhere at a given Squinch Dec 2013 #90

Same here. No matter how attracted I am to a man in the beginning, if he proves himself over time smirkymonkey Dec 2013 #103

that would be the point. too many of us do not want to wallow in the sewer and those in it want all seabeyond Dec 2013 #65

. Squinch Dec 2013 #78

It's so bad no one can even say what it's about? BainsBane Dec 2013 #67

Well I can I'm not shy ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #68

again, the whole point is "sex" without any satisfaction for the woman BainsBane Dec 2013 #71

Exactly ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #83

I truly don't see how any of this is arousing. I've seen tons of explicit material but I hate nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #104

Or that was my other choice... xulamaude Dec 2013 #73

A Jackpine Radical Dec 2013 #93

RQ will please correct me if I'm wrong but: xulamaude Dec 2013 #69

That is totally different from what Ism just said BainsBane Dec 2013 #74

See my above... nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #75

I know about such things ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #80

Either, or - normalized as kink... xulamaude Dec 2013 #84

I don't think that people think of the physical damage ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #88

If you look at the text descriptions, redqueen Dec 2013 #96

Explanation below (you've been warned) redqueen Dec 2013 #95

guys like to pretend this is out there shit. it is not out there shit. this stuff is the norm seabeyond Dec 2013 #100

Oh man, that is just sick! smirkymonkey Dec 2013 #106

Thank you for your clarification - xulamaude Dec 2013 #108

Citizen Kane is all I can think of.... boston bean Dec 2013 #77

As in #58 above. Jackpine Radical Dec 2013 #94

Well, Google is a bad idea for a lot of stuff Warpy Dec 2013 #102

Sad world, when people can't even get together in the most basic human ways... nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #107