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Bereavement

MutantAndProud

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7. Glad to hear you can have your own memorial

Reply to RSherman (Reply #2)

Wed May 17, 2023, 06:27 PM

May 2023

The ceremony would already be tainted by that petty and irrational behavior, so at least you don’t have to have that around for your farewell

It’s not uncommon for people to turn out like that, I don’t know why it happens. I haven’t had to deal with that in my immediate family as far as funerals, but absolutely for other reasons.

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Ex girlfriend not allowing me to attend my friend's scattering of ashes [View all] RSherman May 2023 OP

Is there a possibility that the family or funeral home would give you a vial of ashes? Marthe48 May 2023 #1

Thank you RSherman May 2023 #2

Glad to hear you can have your own memorial MutantAndProud May 2023 #7

Thank you for understanding RSherman May 2023 #8

I am so very sorry. I cant imagine. My only idea mahina May 2023 #3

Thank you RSherman May 2023 #5

How sad. If you paid for the funeral home (she must know this), it is very rude of her to not LoisB May 2023 #4

Thank you so much RSherman May 2023 #6

I am so sorry this is happening to you badhair77 May 2023 #9

Thank you so much RSherman May 2023 #10

I am so sorry. PoindexterOglethorpe May 2023 #11