Bereavement

Is to go somewhere you used to cruise together or somewhere you do, with paint cans and rollers and a couple of friends and paint out graffitti. Take rubbish bags and rakes and clean up. Take some flowers and dirt and tools if its somewhere you pass regularly and can water, or do a seed drop.

Find a piece of scrap wood and paint his name on it and write whatever you have to say and put it down to remember him so when you go by there it’ll lift your heart with love. That’s really all I’ve got. Good luck with forgiveness. She needs it.