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Bereavement
Showing Original Post only (View all)My dad died a year ago, my mother two years ago [View all]
My relationship with them was, well, complicated
I still loved them both, despite the complications
But after their deaths, I started having lots of dreams about them
Even before my dad's death -- he had a stroke that left him in a very compromised state for seven years -- I would have dreams of him suddenly coming to and back to his old self
In some of those dreams he would say how proud of the way I managed his money during his stroke days
In some of those dreams we were back at the family cabin
In some of those dreams we were at a hotel and I kept trying to find a way out
Anyway, those dreams are becoming less and less frequent
Even though I woke up stressed from those dreams, I miss them
Is this normal?
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My dad died of a misdiagnosed brain tumor. At first, in my dreams, he was still wasting away
Siwsan
Oct 2021
#3
Dreams about a recently deceased person you cared about are common. Also common,
3Hotdogs
Oct 2021
#4
You write about his hitch in the army.... WW II? Korea? Both were about that Silent Generation time.
3Hotdogs
Oct 2021
#25
You bet. I only had one dream about my dad. I was sitting in a chair with a chair board desk ...
marble falls
Oct 2021
#18
My life with my dad was very easy, we both enjoyed the same things and loved spending time together.
Enter stage left
Oct 2021
#24