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CousinIT

(11,133 posts)
16. I agree. All good points.
Mon Jan 23, 2023, 12:24 AM
Jan 2023

The fact that we don't have paid maternity leave and no childcare is IMO American Taliban's way to keep women financially dependent and vulnerable/easily controlled. I absolutely hate it - it makes me SO mad! Add to that banning abortion and birth control for the same (IMO) reasons. Women need total control of their bodies and lives, and only when they have that will they have freedom. Rethugs love to yowl about 'freedom' but they don't believe women are entitled to it. They've never had it here.

I hope at least when I mention staying employed no matter what, it makes these younger women think long and hard before starting families. Not that I don't think they should -- but it makes them very vulnerable to poverty and homelessness should they lose financial support or lose their partner, because of the lack of support in America for women of childbearing age. That time in a woman's life, as well as their elder years are the most financially vulnerable times in the lives of most women. There's no excuse for it in our society - in America. But in America women are still second-class citizens/breeding apparatus/domestic slaves and their work, bodies, and lives are devalued. All seniors - esp women - are deemed of no value in the US. Women make less, live longer and often end up alone and living at or below poverty level. The idea of being 72 and homeless is shockingly sad for anyone. There's no excuse for any of this here. Nobody in this country should ever be homeless.

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Good grief! I'm so tempted to try to find her. Better Days Ahoy Jan 2023 #1
Terrific, security is critical esp in this demographic. How kind of you to think of Judith. The appalachiablue Jan 2023 #3
Great heartfelt idea. Check the cemeteries and find the one where she stays? So sad, but maybe? Evolve Dammit Jan 2023 #5
Maybe contact the reporter News Junkie Jan 2023 #19
Thank you to everything me who offered ideas! Better Days Ahoy Jan 2023 #20
This is so heartbreaking, Diamond_Dog Jan 2023 #2
Well this doesn't help. Rich cities in Massachusetts doesn't want low income housing. jimfields33 Jan 2023 #7
--- ain't just Massachusetts. I live in N.J. Retired. I am in a hiking club and there are several 3Hotdogs Jan 2023 #17
Not true, friend. No evidence to back your assertion. DU is better than that. Better Days Ahoy Jan 2023 #21
Why I always tell younger women.... CousinIT Jan 2023 #14
Things are slowly getting better Diamond_Dog Jan 2023 #15
I agree. All good points. CousinIT Jan 2023 #16
All good points, Cousin IT! I agree 100% Diamond_Dog Jan 2023 #22
No excuse for this in the richest country in the world. None. Evolve Dammit Jan 2023 #4
See my number 7. What can you do when residents don't want low income housing? jimfields33 Jan 2023 #8
non-caring, rich people will never resolve issues. They could. But won't It's up to the rest of us. Evolve Dammit Jan 2023 #23
Check, plus appalachiablue Jan 2023 #11
Nomadland the movie progressoid Jan 2023 #6
That's an amazing movie. Sky Jewels Jan 2023 #13
I had an uncle by marriage who later divorced my aunt when he remarried a younger woman (another kimbutgar Jan 2023 #9
Heartbreaking story. progressoid Jan 2023 #18
Tax the rich, Lift all boats. hydrolastic Jan 2023 #10
We're #1! The richest country in the world, and yet a huge number of the unhoused. niyad Jan 2023 #12
I spent some 25 years as a stay at home mom. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2023 #24
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