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beam me up scottie

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14. 1.) Do NOT get a mare for your first horse.
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:02 PM
Dec 2012

I love my Warmblood filly but she is impossible to work with at times and can be very dangerous.

Stella is a 16H 1400 lb. teenage diva crazed with hormones who spooks way too easily. She was pastured for the first 3 years of her life and was sold to me for a song because everyone else had given up on her (imagine adopting a 13 year old human girl who was raised by chimpanzees). She is a problem child and will never be suitable for novice or even intermediate level riders. She doesn't bite or kick but has terrible manners and needs to be worked with constantly or she forgets everything she has learned.

Don't get me wrong, she is breathtakingly beautiful, a sweet, affectionate curious girl who charms everyone she meets but I don't allow anyone other than my bf, the farrier and vet handle her. I won't even let bf ride her because you cannot relax for a single second when you're in the saddle. She is a joy to me but she could very easily be someone else's worst nightmare.

Even the gentlest mares can be unpredictable, if you want a good natured buddy who will always be glad to see you, get a cold blood gelding. Our boy Jack is a 7yo draft cross who was horribly mistreated and malnourished and has every reason to hate humans, but he doesn't.
He is VERY large but so sweet natured I would let a child ride him. He is insanely motivated by food and lazy lazy lazy most of the time but that's part of his charm. He's the kind of horse who will rest his head on your shoulder, sigh and close his eyes.

I am still healing from a riding accident this past summer -Stella freaked over a squirrel, bolted, reared and fell down pinning my leg underneath her- and I'm riding Jack bareback as part of my physical (and emotional) therapy. He's so big and well-padded it's like riding a couch with legs.


2.) Try the horse before you buy, dishonest horse traders will medicate animals and you won't get a refund after the check clears.

3.) Find an experienced vet (one who is willing to make emergency calls if s/he is to be your horse's doc) and a trustworthy farrier and have them both examine any animal you wish to buy.

4.) Use horse fencing and don't pinch pennies, bad fences can tear up a horse and allow them to wander out onto the highway.

5.) If you can only have one horse please get the goats too, solitary horses get bored and neurotic.

We have 5 fenced acres for two large horses and feed hay in the winter, we keep two large water tanks full at all times and built a three sided shelter so they can get out of the elements when they want to. We feed daily supplements, worm them 4x yearly, get them immunized every spring and a farrier shoes them every 6 weeks. Your vet can give you a more comprehensive schedule.

Do your homework, horses are time consuming money pits and you might find it more appealing to lease a horse that's stabled elsewhere.

Good luck and happy trails!

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Hey all - buying a horse [View all] Aerows Apr 2012 OP
Hi again. You're not very forthcoming with the info, so start here; Egalitarian Thug Apr 2012 #1
I ask questions Aerows Apr 2012 #2
I don't think you don't intend to do the right thing, quite the contrary. But I do deal with the Egalitarian Thug Apr 2012 #3
It takes me forever to make decisions Aerows May 2012 #9
I seriously consider everything I do. Aerows May 2012 #8
I use to ride in competition fasttense Apr 2013 #40
I was going to suggest a horse rescue group as well - TBF Apr 2012 #4
I have a horse and have had donkeys too. Start by getting to know people who have the kind of animal Vincardog Apr 2012 #5
I have the land Aerows Jan 2013 #27
The inexpensive part is buying the horse itself vanboggie Apr 2012 #6
I will have the goats, to help with the friendship Aerows Jan 2013 #28
When I was small I once told my aunt that I was going to get a horse if I had to buy one when I jwirr Apr 2012 #7
As a horse keeper for over 30 years.... Rider3 Nov 2012 #10
I'm looking Aerows Nov 2012 #11
Go for it, Aerows Rider3 Nov 2012 #13
She is huge, though Aerows Jan 2013 #21
17 hands Aerows Jan 2013 #22
Horses: LWolf Nov 2012 #12
You agree that having goats would be a good thing for a horse Aerows Jan 2013 #25
Horses aren't happy alone. LWolf Jan 2013 #32
1.) Do NOT get a mare for your first horse. beam me up scottie Dec 2012 #14
I do not understand Aerows Jan 2013 #17
Mares cycle in and out of season, LWolf Jan 2013 #33
My first horse was a mare and she was the most gentle creature in all the world. fasttense Apr 2013 #41
You make me nostalgic. nt LWolf Apr 2013 #42
This message was self-deleted by its author beam me up scottie Feb 2013 #34
Seriously, I can't imagine not liking a mare Aerows Jan 2013 #20
17H Sorrel Aerows Jan 2013 #23
Goats Aerows Jan 2013 #26
I will listen to good advice Aerows Jan 2013 #30
Exciting time of life - fulfilling that dream toby jo Dec 2012 #15
Middle aged horses are great for everyone Aerows Jan 2013 #18
Tennessee Walkers Aerows Jan 2013 #19
I picked an 8 year old mare Aerows Jan 2013 #24
I am trying not to be hard headed Aerows Jan 2013 #29
having friendly equines is a good idea, yeah? Aerows Jan 2013 #31
This message was self-deleted by its author magical thyme Jan 2013 #16
Just curious to know if you got your horse Rider3 Feb 2013 #35
I don't have the money yet Aerows Feb 2013 #36
I admire that -- Rider3 Mar 2013 #37
Good for you Aerows vanboggie Mar 2013 #38
as a lifelong horsewoman, a few suggestions magical thyme Jul 2013 #43
Have had ponies and horses through my life but would efhmc Apr 2013 #39
My 2 bits HealUS Dec 2013 #44
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