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Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
14. What's wrong with them?
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 01:54 AM
Oct 2013

Well, let's start with children. Empathy is not something we are born with, It's a combination of our own cognitive development, and learning from others.

Empathy is also more than just being able to understand another person's feelings - Even a sociopath can do that, that's simply communication, most able people can manage this just fine. No, empathy also includes the understanding that you are not the star of the show, that not only are there other people, but that those peopel are also important, but that not you, northem, are the central figures of some seventy-year personal drama story.

For whatever reasons, a lot of children don't develop that, or it becomes stunted. I'm no professional, i'm sure there are lots of reasons why - and let's not take the lazy route of blaming the parents, I've seen plenty of great parents whose kids still grow up as manipulative pricks. Who knows why, maybe it's genes, maybe it's peers, maybe it's just something that amuses the kid, maybe it's a lot of things, different for each case.

People like you describe... they all think the world is about them. That's what it comes down to, that selfishness, that inability to perceive other people as mattering, except inasmuch as they matter to that person. The reason they hate welfare, for instance, isn't because they hate the poor. They don't even fucking see the poor. No, welfare pisses them off because they think it's a slight against them, taking "their" money, and giving it to "someone else" - someone who, in their heads does not matter, and will never matter.

They buy these wacky conspiracy theories, because it's gratifying. it makes them feel special, not just because they "know" something that "isn't being reported," but also because, inevitably, these conspiracies are about someone coming to inconvenience them in someway. The UN wants to take their guns. Michelle wants to make them eat broccoli. Pelosi is going to set up death camps for christians. They don't worry about things that don't revolve around them. Something awful happening in that country over there? Will it make gas prices go up? No? don't care, then!

The conservative media complex, as you call it, doesn't create the problem. It's clearly intended to be exploitative, capitalizing on these people's paranoia and self-centeredness to make a buck. But.. .that has the effect of encouraging that sort of thing. And I suppose that's just "expanding the market" until market demands mean that the hacks squeezing money from chumps like Limbaugh, get replaced by the chumps themselves, like Beck. Oh, there's a difference there, hard though it may be to see with our liberal eyes. Pretty soon you've got a feedback loop, with paranoid self-centered fucks, telling other paranoid self-centered fucks, to go forth and be paranoid self-centered fucks.

The effect this has on the society it parasitizes off of is clearly obvious, and is, as we've been seeing recently, beginning to bite the asses of the money-squeezing hacks. The Republican reaction to the Tea Party of late is that of Victor Frankenstein upon realizing what he's done. But, like that ill-fated German doctor, their creation is not going to stop until it sees their destruction, or is itself destroyed.

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the Confederacy is rising.... VanillaRhapsody Oct 2013 #1
Well, it's got no other direction it can go... Scootaloo Oct 2013 #13
May not be rising.... Hulk Oct 2013 #16
These guys are an issue, or dang should be. Hoyt Oct 2013 #2
I hope that someone is keeping track of these guys mwrguy Oct 2013 #10
There is nothing wrong with responsible gun ownership pitbullgirl1965 Oct 2013 #3
Good post. Does he carry concealed, is it a big safe pretty full, does he have kids? Hoyt Oct 2013 #15
Yes ( i have no idea where)I'm not certain, and kids grown up pitbullgirl1965 Oct 2013 #22
Far too limited... IkeRepublican Oct 2013 #19
Ah gotcha. you'd think they get tired of it right? pitbullgirl1965 Oct 2013 #23
Ike would say... DissidentVoice Oct 2013 #28
A great man and President* pitbullgirl1965 Oct 2013 #35
I have noticed that too DissidentVoice Oct 2013 #36
I fully support your owning firearms. dballance Oct 2013 #4
Respect and fear exactly! pitbullgirl1965 Oct 2013 #8
Don't wear your Obama shirt there NBachers Oct 2013 #5
Ya Cha Oct 2013 #6
I Love It when I wake up in the morning and Barack Obama is President pitbullgirl1965 Oct 2013 #9
Have three of them IkeRepublican Oct 2013 #18
Don't wear an Obama shirt but do what I do... TlalocW Oct 2013 #21
I would! DissidentVoice Oct 2013 #31
I wore one to a gun show. safeinOhio Oct 2013 #33
i have no problem with safety conscious gun owners Warpy Oct 2013 #7
I think I'd find another range. See if you can find a private gun club in your area. Skeeter Barnes Oct 2013 #11
Agreed IkeRepublican Oct 2013 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author IkeRepublican Oct 2013 #25
You also might look on the web for state funded and operated ranges. Skeeter Barnes Oct 2013 #37
It's almost like the crowd in a sports bar. All talk and stats. Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2013 #12
What's wrong with them? Scootaloo Oct 2013 #14
It sounds like they are in search of something to believe in UCmeNdc Oct 2013 #17
I know, right? bobclark86 Oct 2013 #20
More details about the range location. IkeRepublican Oct 2013 #26
''I just don't get it.'' DeSwiss Oct 2013 #27
There's fear, and then there's rabid paranoid insanity. Flying Squirrel Oct 2013 #30
That's what happens when is goes unchecked. n/t DeSwiss Oct 2013 #34
Those "Tacti-Cool" guys... are they at your range? agentS Oct 2013 #29
Ranges love the baggers because JoeyT Oct 2013 #32
Very true IkeRepublican Nov 2013 #38
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