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kdmorris

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1. Greetings, Seaglass, and welcome!
Thu May 24, 2012, 11:36 AM
May 2012

Do you mean are there rules in the Genealogy world that you should be aware of or unwritten rules in this group that you should be aware of?

As far as "unwritten group rules", the only real "unwritten rule" is be civil to others. If you have issues with a particular DUer on other groups/forums, this is not the place to fight with them about it. Feel free to disagree with others about things, but don't call them names

In the Genealogy world outside of DU - the only unwritten rule I've ever wanted to see enforced (and it never has) is don't be mean (I guess that's the same rule LOL). I once had a cousin tell me that my research skills were crap and that I got it completely f**king wrong. This from the same cousin that had a man fathering a child 27 years after he died (when he would have been 97 years old).

A lot of older records are open to interpretation and people do the best that they can. I wish that other genealogists knew that and could just say "hey... I think you might have this wrong. Calvin Neel could not have fathered this child. Are you sure he's not the child of William Calvin Neel?" instead of attacking you personally.

Above all, have fun and let us know what we can do to help!

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Greetings, Seaglass, and welcome! kdmorris May 2012 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass May 2012 #2
Iterate gave you lots of good advice kdmorris May 2012 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author Iterate May 2012 #3
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as far as unwritten etiquette, well Sherman A1 May 2012 #8
I've been researching PatSeg May 2012 #9
I wish I could "like" your post :D kdmorris May 2012 #10
Quite unlike anything else PatSeg May 2012 #11
I'm late to welcome you, but you've jumped into a whole new obsession! csziggy Jun 2012 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Jun 2012 #13
I noticed you mentioned you hadn't had much luck with your search in Canada, polly7 Jun 2012 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Jun 2012 #15
Yvw seaglass ... polly7 Jun 2012 #16
I thought I would have no problem with the name "Huffman" in the US kdmorris Jun 2012 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Jun 2012 #19
LOL yep! kdmorris Jun 2012 #20
I use the links with Ancestry to get the hints so I can check them out easily csziggy Jun 2012 #18
I am new to this forum... retrogal Sep 2012 #21
I've been looking into some open source web software, Iterate Sep 2012 #22
I don't use a GEDCOM retrogal Sep 2012 #23
Welcome to our little group! Rosie1223 Sep 2012 #24
Welcome retrogal kdmorris Sep 2012 #25
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