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Mental Health Support

olddots

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8. i can only ad more gloomy advice

Reply to mzteris (Original post)

Wed May 15, 2013, 08:32 PM

May 2013

we get to a point where we want help so much that we won't accept it when offered .
Chances are he is depressed about being depressed which is hard to explain so maybe try getting him out of this space by not
talking about his depression with him and how to help him get out of it .I know this makes little sense as advice but he probably wants to talk about anything but his depression ,it makes him feel like a statistic and a diagnosis instead of a person.

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How do you make someone [View all] mzteris May 2013 OP

You can't help someone who cannot help themselves... Neoma May 2013 #1

You can't BainsBane May 2013 #2

I'm thinking mzteris May 2013 #3

Do you know someone in his area? BainsBane May 2013 #4

Just an awful situation. polly7 May 2013 #5

I don't know what to say. I've been in the black hole often enough. hunter May 2013 #6

You can't I'm afraid. I know, I'm someone who needs to listen... Locut0s May 2013 #7

i can only ad more gloomy advice olddots May 2013 #8

Actually this is excellent advice... Locut0s May 2013 #10

Thanks for the responses mzteris May 2013 #9

Do you know anyone else who knows him? Can you contact them? Locut0s May 2013 #11

update mzteris May 2013 #12

he may feel some abandonment issues about doctors & therapists olddots May 2013 #13