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Mental Health Support

Maraya1969

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4. He wrote to you initially right? So he must respect your friendship.

Reply to XanaDUer2 (Original post)

Wed Dec 27, 2023, 03:36 PM

Dec 2023

Has he not seen her in decades either? Maybe he wrote back to her initially because of that.

Either way try not to get upset because you really have no idea what happened here. "Excuse them rather than accuse them for the sake of your mental health"

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I feel invisible Update 2 [View all] XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 OP

Try not to take it personal AKwannabe Dec 2023 #1

TY XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #2

Sometimes things don't go quickly over in Meta land IbogaProject Dec 2023 #15

I am sorry, Zana. sheshe2 Dec 2023 #3

He wrote to you initially right? So he must respect your friendship. Maraya1969 Dec 2023 #4

It's almost worse Tesha Dec 2023 #5

Maybe I'll say something XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #10

Perhaps a phone call might be a little more personal? FakeNoose Dec 2023 #6

Maybe he thought it was a group and the one response went to the both of you??? LoisB Dec 2023 #7

It was a group PM XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #9

Well, you are most definitely not a "third wheel afterthought" here. LoisB Dec 2023 #19

Awww, ty! XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #20

I'm so sorry. It's very hurtful to be slighted by your family. LiberalLoner Dec 2023 #8

Maybe you could plead technological incompetence and ask them to re-send the message Ocelot II Dec 2023 #11

I just read your edit. Well done. You did the right thing. If they do right in return, that's great. If they don't, Scrivener7 Dec 2023 #12

Thanks XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #13

If it's to be it will be... hands off. live love laugh Dec 2023 #14

Sending you a big hug MyMission Dec 2023 #16

Hug back XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #17

Well, you're not any worse off than you were before he contacted you Warpy Dec 2023 #18

So sorry you feel slighted. I gave up contact with my extended family over 20 years ago. Im Ziggysmom Dec 2023 #21