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Runningdawg

(4,630 posts)
16. As a retired nurse, I understand why you didn't want to tell them. If like me, you have no family or friends nearby.
Mon Feb 19, 2024, 02:04 PM
Feb 2024

The day I admit I am having problems living alone is the day social services steps in, declares me incompetent, assigns a state babysitter who then takes my dogs to the pound, parks me in the lowest price nursing home and pockets the change.
I saw this happen time and time again!! At Christmas this year I learned it had happened to a friend in WY. She did have some family, far away, they are now trying to regain control, but she is going downhill FAST.
No thank you. I would love to die from a fall in my own backyard, not tied to stretcher in hell.

And do I trust the profession? Not anymore. 2 years ago my Dr told me to take the crap in the box test. I told her no. It arrived anyhow and I refused delivery, sent it back. So imagine my surprise when the office sent the results of my test!! That was the last time I ever saw that Dr.
A big red flag should have been the first visit when she stuck the fat lady for a blood sugar reading - 92. But without knowing I was a nurse, pronounced me a diabetic then there. I am not and have never been diabetic.

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Why would you not tell your provider about falls? TwilightZone Feb 2024 #1
I think they want me to move out of my house CountAllVotes Feb 2024 #3
Who is "they" that want you to move? nt DURHAM D Feb 2024 #5
I have been inundated with calls and emails from real estate brokers and flippers-- viva la Feb 2024 #7
Me too, and I ignore them. Ocelot II Feb 2024 #10
Anyone and everyone who owns a house gets the calls/mailings from flippers Merlot Feb 2024 #14
REAL ESTATE OFFERS MotownPgh Feb 2024 #15
The fall question is a standard one. TwilightZone Feb 2024 #8
Why would your doctor want you to move out of your house? Ocelot II Feb 2024 #9
My cousins doctor asked her the fall question and she responded yes. DURHAM D Feb 2024 #2
Falls are often a result of a momentary blackout or heart arrhythmia viva la Feb 2024 #4
They always ask about falls if you're older. There's a good reason for it. Ocelot II Feb 2024 #6
That's a strange and blunt opening for a health care provider. appalachiablue Feb 2024 #11
I don't understand the problem. Asking about falls is a standard question Ocelot II Feb 2024 #12
It's the manner in which it was stated, as an assumption appalachiablue Feb 2024 #13
Didn't intend to insult your expertise Ocelot II Feb 2024 #17
No problem, thanks for the reply. Yes, I saw your appalachiablue Feb 2024 #19
As a retired nurse, I understand why you didn't want to tell them. If like me, you have no family or friends nearby. Runningdawg Feb 2024 #16
Bingo CountAllVotes Feb 2024 #18
I hope you get the help and peace of mind that you deserve. Runningdawg Feb 2024 #20
I want them to leave me alone CountAllVotes Feb 2024 #21
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