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In reply to the discussion: 24 hours after diagnosis [View all]

al_liberal

(432 posts)
13. Don't put the cart ahead of the horse just yet.
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 01:05 PM
Jan 2024

Believe me, I’ve been there. I was diagnosed via biopsy almost 4 years ago. As I understand things you don’t know for certain you have cancer yet. Yes, it hits you hard, just the thought that it might be real. Makes your neck hair stand up and your blood run cold. Take a few deep breaths and then learn as much as you can as you await your next steps. It’s slow growing so you have time. Here’s a board that was quite helpful to me

https://healthunlocked.com/prostate-cancer-community

Hug your wife, be thankful shes there and that you have each other. Don’t let the fear and worry take hold, it’s rarely as bad as our minds lead us to believe.

Good luck!

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24 hours after diagnosis [View all] Wiscodoug Jan 2024 OP
I don't know anything that would really help, but I am sending HOPE Drum Jan 2024 #1
Wow. Hard to imagine a doctor telling you that without definitive lab results. mobeau69 Jan 2024 #2
prostate cancer is highly treatable if caught early. nocoincidences Jan 2024 #3
Thank you. Wiscodoug Jan 2024 #8
You might also google Proton Therapy virgdem Jan 2024 #12
Be calm, elleng Jan 2024 #4
Check out this board: barbtries Jan 2024 #5
Stuff: Botany Jan 2024 #6
Prostate cancer is very common, especially as men age. Freethinker65 Jan 2024 #7
i'm in a similar sitch, only a few wks ahead of u. mopinko Jan 2024 #9
We're here for you woodsprite Jan 2024 #10
Yep Wiscodoug Jan 2024 #11
Don't put the cart ahead of the horse just yet. al_liberal Jan 2024 #13
You're in my thoughts XanaDUer2 Jan 2024 #14
Find support Daylily Jan 2024 #15
Try not to freak out until you know more. TNNurse Jan 2024 #16
My brother was dxed with it years ago Lifeafter70 Feb 2024 #17
Been there too Nac Mac Feegle Feb 2024 #18
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