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Claire Oh Nette

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5. My birthmother had ovarian cancer
Thu May 6, 2021, 09:42 PM
May 2021

stage 4.

Took what your taking. Lost her hair right on schedule, around day ten, I think, like they said. Cut it short, less to clear off your pillow once it falls out. It will grow back curly. Hats, scarves, wigs if you want. Bald women are no big deal these days.

My Jojoma said it felt like chemo turned her inside out. She was usually ok on infusion days, then faded pretty quick the next two or three. then perked back up. The port is not a big deal, makes it easy to infuse and minimizes needle and IV sticks. I can't remember which one caused her neuropathy in her hands--she used to knit, but got to where she just couldn't. My niece, a RPh., had her mother hold a frozen water bottle to minimize any neuropathy. Mine was a much more stubborn sort. Depending on what stage your cancer is will determine how much debulking the surgical team does.

Infusions are fairly slow--chemo was a most of the day affair, and tiring. Take snacks, juice, water.

Courage, Sister.
Long, tough road ahead, but you are stronger than your cancer.

Hugs.

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