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In reply to the discussion: Radiation and Fatigue [View all]

cyclonefence

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6. I had radiation with my first cancer,
Thu Dec 27, 2018, 12:35 PM
Dec 2018

and, like you, I was very surprised by how debilitating the fatigue was. I had expected to be tired, but this was way beyond tired. I finally dealt with it be refusing to be surprised! You know now how this is making you feel; let it go, if you can. Do you have someone helping you? I found that trying hard to do what I could was a big mistake. I felt a lot better if I just stayed sitting (or lying) someplace comfortable with junk TV on and welcomed drifting off to sleep. I think resisting the fatigue only makes it hold on longer--your body needs rest after this assault, and you shouldn't deny it.

Part of my problem was Puritan guilt. I hope this is not your problem, too. You are not exhausted because you are lazy. You're exhausted because your body has been attacked by foreign particles!

It will eventually get better, but I think it will take longer if you try to speed your recovery up. If you can, resting and pampering yourself will make you feel better now and help you get better long term.

This is a real tough thing to go through, especially if you are an energetic person and like to get things done. But it will pass, and you'll get back to your old self eventually--it just takes time. Hang in there!

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Radiation and Fatigue [View all] JHan Dec 2018 OP
Hi JHan --Hugs to you and sending wishes for better health soon. My father went through skylucy Dec 2018 #1
thank you for sharing that, it gives me hope. JHan Dec 2018 #3
You will feel better! So sorry you're going through this. I'm sending you positive healing wishes. Cousin Dupree Dec 2018 #2
thank you JHan Dec 2018 #4
Hi, JHan Ohiogal Dec 2018 #5
I have a great support system. JHan Dec 2018 #7
I had radiation with my first cancer, cyclonefence Dec 2018 #6
yes, it's way beyond tired, it's a constant feeling of being drained. JHan Dec 2018 #8
I've received such support myself cyclonefence Dec 2018 #9
"to hell with the dishes" lol JHan Dec 2018 #11
Happy New Year! cyclonefence Jan 2019 #25
happy new year to you too! JHan Jan 2019 #30
One nice thing about radiation therapy at Markey Cancer Center was alfredo Jan 2019 #24
I went through 25 radiation treatments for uterine cancer, five years ago. Staph Dec 2018 #10
yup my doctors warned me but I had no idea ..... my word. JHan Dec 2018 #12
Yeah, it knocks the crap out of you. alfredo Dec 2018 #13
I've been doing whatever little exercise I can, because my muscles do feel weak. JHan Dec 2018 #15
Patience is so important. alfredo Dec 2018 #16
"I'm alive, and that is enough" JHan Dec 2018 #18
Thanks. It's an Interesting journey. alfredo Dec 2018 #22
My situation is different, but I can understand the fatigue you are going through. In my case still_one Dec 2018 #14
... JHan Dec 2018 #19
......................... still_one Dec 2018 #21
Chemo will do some real damage, but you deal with it alfredo Dec 2018 #23
It took a good year for me to feel anything close to my old self. Solly Mack Dec 2018 #17
i will JHan Dec 2018 #20
... Anon-C Jan 2019 #26
... JHan Jan 2019 #31
Had 37 radiation treatments 5 years ago. aka-chmeee Jan 2019 #27
You will be in our prayers Gothmog Jan 2019 #28
My husband is about to start this. Scared but want him to live! I pray daily for cpamomfromtexas Jan 2019 #29
You will recover Nac Mac Feegle Jan 2019 #32
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