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OKNancy

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18. Thank you for posting.
Sun Aug 14, 2016, 03:56 AM
Aug 2016

I'll look into the FMLA. We aren't worried about him keeping his job. His boss will gladly bring him back when he is able. But his boss just can't afford to pay him when he is not on the job ( house painter.) My husband has worked for him for 25 years. He's what you would call a master-painter. Does rich people's homes and re-models. The boss doesn't want to lose him.

Good idea on the meds!! - We haven't been prescribed anything yet. Although I guess we will. He starts radiation and chemo next week.

Boy are you right about keeping track of things. I was on the phone two hours with scheduling. As it is now, Robert will have his first chemo treatment without his port. He gets his port and feeding tube 4 days after his first chemo.

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Sending many prayers and much love to you and your husband. woodsprite Aug 2016 #1
thank you so much OKNancy Aug 2016 #2
You need to be the one that writes everything down and act ad sinkingfeeling Aug 2016 #3
thank you OKNancy Aug 2016 #4
I'm in Fayetteville AR. We have a guy who lives in Stillwell and sinkingfeeling Aug 2016 #5
6 times.... that's terrible OKNancy Aug 2016 #7
I'm sorry to read this but please know you can unload here with us. Solly Mack Aug 2016 #6
Something to keep in mind PennyK Aug 2016 #8
thank you. I think they have been very open about side effects OKNancy Aug 2016 #9
HPV caused cancer is easier to treat than cancer caused by smoking. alfredo Aug 2016 #10
Is he a veteran? alfredo Aug 2016 #11
No OKNancy Aug 2016 #12
start looking for state and federal programs that can help defray costs. alfredo Aug 2016 #13
Sorry to hear you and your husband have joined the sucky club ... slipslidingaway Aug 2016 #14
thank you OKNancy Aug 2016 #15
Hope all is going well, waiting is very difficult, continue being a polite pain though ... slipslidingaway Aug 2016 #16
Nancy, I just found this.... dixiegrrrrl Nov 2016 #19
good morning... I stopped writing because all I felt like doing was complaining OKNancy Nov 2016 #20
Look into FMLA. Ms. Toad Aug 2016 #17
Thank you for posting. OKNancy Aug 2016 #18
Prayers for you and husband and for all cancer patients and those that love them. cpamomfromtexas Jan 2019 #21
Oh my. The new post today made me read through this thread again OKNancy Jan 2019 #22
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