Cancer Support

as it happens i am a hospice volunteer, and so i asked around today on the unit, and apparently it is common.
i was pretty much looking at it through a psychologic lens. she lost her small business early on, and i ended up with a very good divorce and a fair amount of money.

i am trying to work things out, make improvements, but i know that the woman i knew would not want to see her cancer make someone else's get rid of their pets.
i have offered neighbors to foot the bill for some sound proofing. this pissed people off, but if i did this for her it would not only help w my noise, but the many other noises that are in this environment.

i think i will start by having a talk w her partner. i think if we could patch things up, i could maybe even do some other things for her.

i just dont know. such a complicated situation.
i really count on my boys to keep my girls safe from the many hawks and coyotes around here. (coywolves actually, i am told)
she never did like them, tho, much as she loves the girls.
the biggest and loudest is going to a friends farm tomorrow. that leaves me w 3. will evaluate the situation after that.
i do have a place i can send them for a while if it comes to that.