Cancer Support

some additional information. I can only echo what others have said about staying in touch with both phone calls and mail, they both mean so much and are different.

Getting mail is exciting, plus she can display the cards in her room, they last longer after you hang up! That is not to say that hearing a voice and having a conversation is less important ... they both are important. So visit a card store and buy a bunch of cards, some from you and a couple from your daughter. IMO they should be upbeat, go for the humor, and then write a short, but personal note. Plan a visit when you can, but ask your sisters for advice as to when they might need support. Formulate a plan as they are on the frontlines and might be able to handle things currently, but there might be gaps when you can fill in, be there when they cannot so your Mom will have constant support. As my sister said to me, supporting the primary caregivers when they need it help is important, plus you are not duplicating and overwhelming your Mom with visits.

Consider setting up a Caringbridge or CarePages site, if your Mom is on the internet she can read the comments of support and your sisters can post updates as to what is currently taking place without having to make endless phone calls.

Do what you can, keep the communication lines open with your Mom and your sisters.

Wishing the best for your Mom and for your entire family.