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A-Schwarzenegger

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40. I needed to make a connection with

Sat Jan 28, 2023, 07:12 AM

Jan 2023

another man in AA who i liked, trusted and respected. Who had a considerable amount of time living sober. And who could show me, by example, by the steps, by fellowship, how to begin to learn to live sober.

I know plenty of people who have stayed sober who are agnostics and hard-core atheists. Please don't let that issue stop you from saving your life and living a good life.

I believe every sober person has made the kind of connection i'm talking about. It is so important, especially in the beginning. Have you had even the hint of a beginning of that kind of trusting relationship with a woman in AA? Can you imagine it? Would you be willing to keep your eyes and your heart open to it? Whoever the person is that will enter your life and help you in that way, they won't be God, they will be a flawed vulnerable human being like all the rest of us, but they will be doing the work of God in your life, even if they're an atheist.

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That's beautifully written PJMcK Dec 2021 #18

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