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mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
8. Okay ...
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 02:57 AM
Jul 2020

1) Being sober won't cause your death. Drugs and/or alcohol very well might. Either through health effects, or due to the behavior that you wouldn't otherwise engage in.
2) Getting loaded is only a temporary reprieve from what's actually bothering you. It's a band-aid, at best. Nothing will be better than it was before you got loaded ... when you're no longer loaded. However, you're likely to feel even worse from the comedown/hangover. This very often leads to a vicious cycle type of effect.
3) Drugs and alcohol are a waste of money, you save a lot by not partying.
4) It's easier to keep a job if you're not using.
5) It's pretty hard to GET a job if you're using.
6) Your friends and family likely won't trust you if they know you're using. This hurts, and drives more use/drinking.
7) Using wastes time that could be better spent doing something that's ultimately more fulfilling.
8) If anything important suddenly comes up, you know you can deal with it ... get in your car and drive somewhere you're needed, for example ... if you're sober.
9) You can make plans for things occurring in the future and feel a semblance of certainty that you'll be able to follow through with those plans if you're sober. That is actually an underrated benefit IMHO.
10) You won't ever go to jail simply on account of being sober.

In a nutshell, there's nothing so bad that can't be made immeasurably worse ... by picking up.

Hows that for a start?

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Anyone up? I'd like to talk [View all] irisblue Jul 2020 OP
What's going on irisblue? AJT Jul 2020 #1
Hot bad night. Remind me why sober is more please irisblue Jul 2020 #3
Do you have people who love you? AJT Jul 2020 #5
because in the long run you know that is what is best Skittles Jul 2020 #13
I miss my dog, badly. irisblue Jul 2020 #6
Alex was my heart dog. irisblue Jul 2020 #7
I have a Boston Terrier named Leo. He is my second dog. AJT Jul 2020 #10
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when a beloved cat of mine passed, this was the poem on the card the vet office sent me Skittles Jul 2020 #14
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People are always up on DU ... we're worldwide :) Talk away! mr_lebowski Jul 2020 #2
Hot bad night. Remind me why sober is better please irisblue Jul 2020 #4
Okay ... mr_lebowski Jul 2020 #8
Damn Lebwoski. Well then irisblue Jul 2020 #22
12th steppin' ya, hardcore ... mr_lebowski Jul 2020 #23
cause living with yourself is the only option. stopdiggin Jul 2020 #9
I am always awake all night Skittles Jul 2020 #11
Skittles, Honey Girz, can you kick bad dreams away? irisblue Jul 2020 #15
They sure do! BigmanPigman Jul 2020 #17
I usually go out to talk to the people keeping awake Skittles Jul 2020 #21
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