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Addiction & Recovery

Ilsa

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4. Hey there...

Reply to Maraya1969 (Original post)

Fri May 24, 2013, 03:30 PM

May 2013

I just wanted to say that you shouldn't blame yourself if what you suspect has happened. You are a thoughtful loving person, and it's possible he may have manipulated you, but I don't know.

Please take good care of yourself.

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Looks like it... TreasonousBastard May 2013 #1

Thanks for your reply. Maraya1969 May 2013 #2

You're welcome, and I'll mention that... TreasonousBastard May 2013 #6

I checked my Alanon book for today's message libodem May 2013 #3

Thanks for this. I did not even think about the steps until you mentioned them. Maraya1969 May 2013 #5

It is a healthy place to start libodem May 2013 #8

Hey there... Ilsa May 2013 #4

Thanks Ilsa! Maraya1969 May 2013 #7

Ditto what Ilsa said.. don't blame yourself for trying to be helpful mountain grammy May 2013 #10

This little 3 by 3 piece of paper card paper libodem May 2013 #9

i am so stealing those!! NMDemDist2 May 2013 #11