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CountAllVotes

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10. I demanded it be set-up for ME
Sun Jan 29, 2023, 10:37 AM
Jan 2023

This house had the plastic bathtub which I referred to as a "death trap" before we moved in. Sadly, several years later an 81-year old woman living up the street was living in a near identical house and she slipped and fell in the plastic bathtub. She died in that fall and was not found for several days it seems.

I got this house via a Federal program that we were on the waiting list for 10 years. I demanded it be made accessible for a disabled person with a problem like I have.

They HAD to accommodate me and I knew this because no, I am not stupid.

I was given every excuse in the book to NOT do the job to remodel the bathroom, like no one will buy this house as where will they give their babies a bath at? Huh?

I said, I'm not buying this house to raise and bathe babies in, I'm buying it for me and my husband to LIVE IN.

So they remodeled the bathroom with tile and a shower with a removable threshold in it. Over the years, I've had other things done to it to make it more accessible, like having ramps installed outside so I can get inside safely.

I never thought about how the remodeling would affect the value of this house. It was not a concern. That said, I am glad to know this piece of information.

Thank you so much!

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Holding you in light and love. Your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as niyad Jan 2023 #1
All of the "you should's" CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #3
Hugggggggs. niyad Jan 2023 #4
Exactly! blm Jan 2023 #5
I am pretty certain MuseRider Jan 2023 #2
A house that has been made disability-friendly has much extra value localroger Jan 2023 #6
Universal design IS the way to go! Your parents were smart to make those design changes. FailureToCommunicate Jan 2023 #8
I demanded it be set-up for ME CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #10
When my parents sold the first house localroger Jan 2023 #14
I'm sure the remodeling job was not cheap CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #16
That is great! CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #13
The new house has served them well localroger Jan 2023 #15
Yeah for your father! CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #19
Good for you sticking up for yourself! Hey, maybe tell the neighbor, that yes, you have a buyer in.. FailureToCommunicate Jan 2023 #7
He is a minority himself CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #11
Love your last paragraph. It is so true. wnylib Jan 2023 #17
My family has been in America since 1500 or so CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #18
We have a few things in common. wnylib Jan 2023 #26
That's right! CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #35
Walker used yankee87 Jan 2023 #9
I'm glad you are still going! CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #12
yatta greblach Jan 2023 #20
He has never offered to outright help me CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #29
I think you should tell your neighbor that... momta Jan 2023 #21
+1 CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #25
You sound very smart and on top of things thinkingagain Jan 2023 #22
He doesn't think CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #23
you are doing well. barbtries Jan 2023 #24
My late husband was 65 CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #27
+++ llashram Jan 2023 #28
I've had neuropathy for 40 years now CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #32
big time llashram Jan 2023 #33
Prop 13 is great for Calif homeowners, but massive malls and businesses with multiple corporate TeamProg Jan 2023 #30
Most Californians used up their prop. 13 a long time ago CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #40
Huh? Prop 13 STILL benefits any Calif. home-owner. Also, if one moves within Calif., there TeamProg Jan 2023 #43
it did not work that way for my parents CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #45
No transfer if you buy something cheaper, obviously. n/t TeamProg Jan 2023 #47
As somebody with autism (high-functioning), I get it tornado34jh Jan 2023 #31
Welcome to the DU tornado34jh! CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #34
Thanks tornado34jh Jan 2023 #37
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A ready come-back if your nosy neighbor asks you again to sell your house... Bluejeans Jan 2023 #36
Houses around here are selling for close to that CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #38
I would have no problem telling this guy to fuck off Bayard Jan 2023 #39
+1 CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #42
"you should"--some people just talk that way. They get it from their mothers. demigoddess Jan 2023 #44
thanks! CountAllVotes Jan 2023 #46
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