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LaurenG

(24,841 posts)
29. I had a great doctor
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 08:41 AM
Jul 2012

I had mine tied at 21 about 18 months after my son was born.

The doctor did ask me several questions and told me he thought that I was way to young to do this but that he respected that I was certain I wanted to do this. He did a laparoscopic tubal banding with silicone bands, he said if there were a reversible procedure this would be the easiest to reverse. I am in my 50's now and I don't regret doing it.

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Given the relatively low numbers for post op regret Warpy Jul 2012 #1
Are you me? :-) REP Jul 2012 #5
When I got mine at age 30 NV Whino Jul 2012 #2
That was an extraordinarily arrogant comment by the doc. Gormy Cuss Jul 2012 #3
had it done twice... handmade34 Jul 2012 #4
I've had a tubal ligation and a uterine ablation - but only once each REP Jul 2012 #6
I had 3 children with my abusive ex-husband kdmorris Jul 2012 #7
That seems to follow CREST findings: REP Jul 2012 #8
Except for "being of Hispanic origin" kdmorris Jul 2012 #9
Get your tubes tied and regret it, you have many options LadyHawkAZ Jul 2012 #10
I had a hard time getting my tubes tied and I already had two kids gollygee Jul 2012 #11
In most cases there's no reason not to try a LARC first, LeftyMom Jul 2012 #12
Except for wanting it over and done with REP Jul 2012 #13
Pretty much every other country in the world routinely puts IUDs in nulliparas. LeftyMom Jul 2012 #14
I'd say it's largely ass-covering. n/t gkhouston Jul 2012 #15
I think they just weren't making them for the US market REP Jul 2012 #17
Make the man get a V-sect! Taverner Jul 2012 #16
And recovery is much less for the male procedure! It's a much more minor procedure. yardwork Jul 2012 #18
Two anecdotes. REP Jul 2012 #22
I'd given birth that year and had spent my out-of-pocket annual maximum gollygee Jul 2012 #19
Not so great for those of us women LadyHawkAZ Jul 2012 #20
I've been with my partner 20 years. I still want to control MY body. REP Jul 2012 #21
I certainly won't disagree with that LadyHawkAZ Jul 2012 #23
Would you have needed a note from a man to remain pregnant? REP Jul 2012 #24
"Make" the man? 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #25
if it's a pain in the ass, i'd say your surgeon missed the mark.... unblock Jul 2012 #26
I didn't write the headline... REP Jul 2012 #28
I have been taking hormonal birth control for 30 years prole_for_peace Jul 2012 #27
I had a great doctor LaurenG Jul 2012 #29
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