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BlancheSplanchnik

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15. lol! Looking them in the eye....

Fri Feb 3, 2012, 09:51 AM

Feb 2012

yes I used to do that too.

I kind of straddled a fence; sometimes I'd be on the "I need the approval!!" side, and sometimes I'd be on the "Fuck You, dude!" side. Definitely, forcibly returning the gaze, making forceful eye contact, is key.

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this snip says it very well BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2012 #13

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lol! Looking them in the eye.... BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2012 #15

forcibly returning the gaze, making forceful eye contact, is key. seabeyond Feb 2012 #16

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