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79. My mother's sterling silver went first.

Thu Apr 2, 2026, 11:52 AM

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Didn't get a lot for it, about $300. Nobody gets silver for a wedding present any more.

We also had to get rid of some furniture handed down to my husband.

Little stuff like ceramic animals (chotchkas).

Old lace tablecloth. Also out of style, only I gave that to my daughter who uses it on Thanksgiving.

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OK, I have HAD it with minimalist shaming!!!! I love my stuff! [View all] Coventina Mar 24 OP

Views enid602 Mar 24 #1

You better get busy then. 🤓😀❤️ littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #30

I had a woman stay with me for a couple of months because she was in hard times. She had so much stuff Deuxcents Mar 24 #2

OH MY GOD/DESS!! This hit me in the gut!!! Coventina Mar 24 #36

Now, this has got me 😢 I can understand your original post better. Deuxcents Mar 24 #51

Such generational trauma runs in the family. Coventina Mar 24 #52

Sad what happens to little children and the adults don't realize or say..they'll get over it 😔 Deuxcents Mar 24 #54

Same here.... some_of_us_are_sane Tuesday #73

We moved when I was 11 UpInArms Wednesday #76

I'm not a minimalist and I love my treasures Niagara Mar 24 #3

I figure I gave up a SECURE job in broadcasting to go home and be a full time mom. calimary Mar 24 #4

Right on! StarryNite Mar 24 #5

Minimalism jworks OK for people who go to work , come home Warpy Mar 24 #6

After volunteering for years with arts and children's causes... littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #32

Hear, hear!! THANK YOU for saying this! EuterpeThelo Mar 24 #7

ding . this . AllaN01Bear Mar 24 #9

Keeper of the flame is a noble endeavor. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #35

Sun and Moon in Cancer here. I love everything you said!!! Coventina Mar 24 #38

its my stuff , leave me alone . and everything is allocated to another person via a will AllaN01Bear Mar 24 #8

I'm with you! mtngirl47 Mar 24 #10

That's ME! Word for word BigmanPigman Mar 24 #11

I could not possibly agree more. Tomorrow (Good Lord willing and the creek don't rise), I am LoisB Mar 24 #12

I want to keep that which I care about The Madcap Mar 24 #13

Atta gurl! QueerDuck Mar 24 #14

Good for you ms.pamela Mar 24 #15

About china.... LisaM Mar 24 #16

Hells to the yes! EuterpeThelo Mar 24 #18

That's wonderful! I recently found my great-grandmother's butterchurn. I may even have a churning party! ❤️ littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #29

That should be fun. One of my friends is into making his own butter. niyad Mar 24 #53

With a hand churn? It takes a village. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #55

He's a big, tough guy! niyad Mar 24 #56

It takes hours and people usually have to take turns. littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #57

Actually, I think you are correct. All I know is that I am NOT volunteering niyad Mar 24 #58

Hahaha. Don't worry. I'll be glad to butter your bread. You wouldn't have to lift a finger. littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #59

And I would be happy to be there. I can bring goodies! niyad Mar 24 #60

Absolutely! We'll butter everything! 😀 littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #61

Pate, Brie, good baguettes, MUST have good butter! niyad Mar 24 #63

Absolutely! ❤️ littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #64

wonderful thought there. I hereby award a gold star ... -- best post -- stopdiggin Mar 24 #31

Really good post. Struggling with these issues as we type. Evolve Dammit Mar 24 #17

Right with you Dammit. nt Prairie_Seagull Mar 24 #21

Marie Kondo? Isn't she the one who said "Ideally, you should own fewer than thirty books"? Aristus Mar 24 #19

MORE!!! niyad Mar 24 #26

Years ago, I had a dear friend, whose dating life amused me no end. niyad Mar 24 #45

He lack of reading undoubtedly explains his numerous fiascos. Aristus Mar 24 #68

I think you are correct about his fiascos, although they provided me niyad Mar 25 #69

For one of our moves, we had 50 boxes of books. 3catwoman3 Mar 24 #65

Our library drray23 Wednesday #77

That looks very inviting! 3catwoman3 Thursday #78

No scholar would take that seriously. Thirty REFERENCE books is not even a start. eppur_se_muova Mar 25 #70

Yeah. Right on. Fuck Marie Kondo. Who the hell does she think she is? FadedMullet Mar 24 #20

Who the hell is she??? niyad Mar 24 #27

She's a "Simplify Your Life" maven who makes a living telling people what they are doing wrong. Tells folks to...... FadedMullet Tuesday #71

You go!! Joinfortmill Mar 24 #22

Very righteous rant, Coventina. I can't agree more. littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #23

Fun fact: After Marie Kondo cluttered her house with a bunch of kids flvegan Mar 24 #24

You have every right to do what's best for you. hamsterjill Mar 24 #25

Whew! Glad we got THAT off of our chest! stopdiggin Mar 24 #28

Who can trust a woman that doesn't want more than a few books (that crazy Kondo lady) - TBF Mar 24 #33

I'll keep other people's books. But not without their consent. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #40

Darned straight. Enjoy it! Raven123 Mar 24 #34

$160 a month for storage x 15 years BidenRocks Mar 24 #37

I am 100% against putting stuff in paid storage. Coventina Mar 24 #42

EBay? I think you'd be surprised if you advertised. The post office littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #44

Yes! I'm keeping my stuff too. OnionPatch Mar 24 #39

EXACTLY!!! niyad Mar 24 #43

In the past month, I have seen at least two dozen of these minimalist, niyad Mar 24 #41

Live your own life BeneteauBum Mar 24 #46

Marie Kondo can take a big dumpster and shove it where usonian Mar 24 #47

I saw a homeless guy last week riding his bicycle JoseBalow Mar 24 #48

Psychologists keep trying to label normal behaviors as disease delisen Mar 24 #49

I enjoy being a loner as my home is full of treasures that I can ...occupy littlemissmartypants Mar 24 #50

Art, music collections, JBTaurus83 Mar 24 #62

I have thoroughly enjoyed this thread. 3catwoman3 Mar 24 #66

I have topics that pop up on some of my feeds that say, "Women Over 40 Shouldn't Have These Items In Their Home" Niagara Tuesday #74

💯% with you Figarosmom Mar 24 #67

Having been in the military Old Crank Tuesday #72

I suspect that my youngest son will keep many of my science books - and my oldest, my art books. Staring down... NNadir Wednesday #75

My mother's sterling silver went first. CTyankee Thursday #79