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True Dough

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32. "Many people in my life were so used to me being their savior when they NEEDED one,

Reply to LuckyCharms (Reply #31)

Sat Jan 3, 2026, 05:01 PM

Jan 3

a savior who would pull them through, hell or high water. I was nothing but dependable."

^ It takes incredible strength to be that person, Lucky. Not everyone has it in them. Firefighters who pull people out of burning buildings. War heroes who save their platoon-mates amid a hail of gunfire. Therapists who talk desperate individuals down from the ledge.

These aren't the sort of characters you come across everyday. You have exceptional fortitude, by the sounds of it. There are others like you, but apparently not there in your life right now. Don't give up, regardless.

If it's any consolation, some of us will remain here for you as long as it takes.

Be well.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] LuckyCharms Jan 3 OP

No explanation necessary for me, just this ms liberty Jan 3 #1

Lucky you take of yourself first! Some semblance of bronxiteforever Jan 3 #2

It's too heavy for DU... LuckyCharms Jan 3 #9

Lucky, you gave me help. If you keep it in it will worse. We love you Lucky let it out and set yourself free. Love debm55 Jan 3 #3

You're sharing this for a reason The Blue Flower Jan 3 #4

I'm posting this because i like to post. Keeps me sane. LuckyCharms Jan 3 #5

The truly exciting, wonderful reality is...You're not Donald Trump. chouchou Jan 3 #6

I'm sorry you are feeling so hopeless now. 1WorldHope Jan 3 #7

Peace. cachukis Jan 3 #8

I hear you. You don't have to explain yourself to me. LoisB Jan 3 #10

I think you do hear me. LuckyCharms Jan 3 #12

I do and I understand. Everyone I called a friend is dead. I continuously have horrifying LoisB Jan 3 #24

Sending love and healing vibes your way, LuckyCharms Grim Chieftain Jan 3 #11

Grim Chieftain... LuckyCharms Jan 3 #13

Been singing along to "This Is Me Trying" a lot lately. A lot of us are. catrose Jan 3 #14

Hold on Wild blueberry Jan 3 #15

No apologies needed here!! OddMom20 Jan 3 #16

Confidential outlet Ksout Jan 3 #17

May the force be with you always. spike jones Jan 3 #18

... 2naSalit Jan 3 #19

Just sending hugs cate94 Jan 3 #20

Won't fumble over advice, but BaronChocula Jan 3 #21

Healing vibes and cyber hugs on the way to you, Lucky SheltieLover Jan 3 #22

When my Dad felt overwhelmed with problems, Jarqui Jan 3 #23

Then, know that we care and are sending whatever vibes you need to help you through this. OldBaldy1701E Jan 3 #25

I'm sending positive vibes you way, Lucky Niagara Jan 3 #26

🫂🫂🫂🫂 Chicagogrl1 Jan 3 #27

I know what it is like Keepthesoulalive Jan 3 #28

All of us are stronger... COL Mustard Jan 3 #29

You're clearly among Friends. BurnDoubt Jan 3 #30

This message was self-deleted by its author LuckyCharms Jan 3 #31

"Many people in my life were so used to me being their savior when they NEEDED one, True Dough Jan 3 #32

Compassion doesn't mean being a doormat for anyone Donkees Jan 3 #33

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