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yellowdogintexas

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81. My mom and I had a real adventure assembling my sister's Barbie Dream House
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 01:20 AM
Dec 5

This was in 1960, my mom was pregnant with my youngest sister and we had spent the past 2 days baking cakes: German's Chocolate, Jam Cake and Coconut cake. Finally it's Christmas Eve and we were getting all the stuff together for my middle sister's "Santa" gifts.

Well we had to build the Barbie Dream House., and we couldn't start until she was asleep. This was the first year for the Dream House and it was made of cardboard, with tabs and slots for everything. We messed with that thing for two hours and nearly killed ourselves laughing at the strange looking pieces which we had put together wrong. It was a bonding experience for my Mom and me. I do not remember when the Dream House died but being cardboard it probably was not very long.

Christmas morning we always had new pajamas and a robe to wear, which my mom made for us; I always had books, my sister had toys. We always had homemade cinnamon rolls on Christmas morning.

Otherwise, we did lots of cooking for our family dinners. Fortunately we did not have to get to both sides of the family on Christmas Day!! My mom's family usually did something Christmas afternoon or evening (depending on who was there from out of town) My grandmother was Norwegian and made all those wonderful pressed butter cookies and marzipan which we loved. After dinner we would go out and drive around town and look at Christmas lights. There was a decorating competition in that town and some of those folks did a pretty big display.

My dad's family had their celebration usually the Sunday after Christmas. Sometimes it was at my Grandparents' and sometimes at my aunt and uncle's farm. We always had country ham from the farm, a turkey, the usual sides, frozen fruit salad, scalloped oysters, mac and cheese, peas and pearl onions, asparagus casserole, homemade rolls and lots of cake.
Granny made a brazil nut devil's food cake with ground brazil nuts in the cake; my mom and I made the three cakes mentioned above and frest fruit ambrosia, with all the good citrus: oranges, pineapple, tangerines, grapefruit, bananas, and coconut. We also had boiled custard with our cake instead of egg nog. Eggnog is made with whiskey or rum but boiled custard is not; the teetotalers weren't having that liquor so custard is preferred. It is not too common except in KY, TN and MS. We still put a teaspoon of bourbon or rum in it. Irony!! You could walk into anyone's house around the holidays and if you looked in the refrigerator there would be at least one mason jar of boiled custard in there. I still love it with coconut cake.

One of my aunts loved to make Christmas goodies, especially fudge and divinity. She also whipped up hot rolls and brought over pans ready to go in the oven.

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We used to have real candles on the Christmas tree Turbineguy Dec 4 #1
Oh you. Thank you very much, Turbineguy. I never knew anyone with real candles on the tree. debm55 Dec 4 #3
They were common when we lived in Switzerland... regnaD kciN Dec 4 #31
Thank you very much, regnaD kciN. We used the string lights too. debm55 Dec 4 #36
Instead of Christmas stockings, we had vinyl boots, red with Christmas decoration Walleye Dec 4 #2
Thank you very much for sharing with us. Walleye. That is a unique idea. debm55 Dec 4 #4
Living in a small town in northern New Jersey... FalloutShelter Dec 4 #5
Great post, FalloutShelter. The local fire department would throw candy from the truck. You are so lucky to get Tiny debm55 Dec 4 #7
Thanks for the post Deb and FalloutShelter Dec 4 #10
You are welcome, FalloutShelter debm55 Dec 4 #15
A big memory is my dad and I singing "The 12 Days of Christmas" every day after dinner during the season lark Dec 4 #6
Thank you very much lark for sharing with us. May the memories of your mother be a blessing to you. debm55 Dec 4 #8
ALCOA is from western Pennsylvania.... MyOwnPeace Dec 4 #9
Thank you very much, My OwnPeace. We never had one. I am so glad. Didn't know that ALCOA made them here in Western PA. debm55 Dec 4 #11
my mother was delighted when she was able to get one of those aluminum trees yellowdogintexas Dec 5 #79
Thank you very much,yellowdogintexas. for sharing your memories for us. My sister had an allergy to live trees too. She debm55 Dec 5 #84
Midnight Mass displacedvermoter Dec 4 #12
Thank you very much, displacedvermotor. I was in the children's chorus. and we sang at the Midnight Mass. debm55 Dec 4 #14
Before the inflatables, the hard plastic yard decorations. debm55 Dec 4 #13
My parents always bought the Firestone Christmas album Freddie Dec 4 #16
Thank you very much, Freddie for sharing. I am unfamiliar with the album, but it sounds great. debm55 Dec 4 #21
It was an annual record only available at Firestone dealers Freddie Dec 4 #32
Thank you.Freddie. debm55 Dec 4 #38
We had the cardboard fireplace... discntnt_irny_srcsm Dec 4 #17
Thank you very much, discntnt_irny_srcsm. So Santa had a way to deliver the presents. debm55 Dec 4 #23
Our main tree was in the living room on the first floor. discntnt_irny_srcsm Dec 4 #34
Thank you very much for sharing with us discntnt_irny_srcsm. debm55 Dec 4 #41
My dad raised three kids on his own. That said, we were lucky to even have a tree. Emile Dec 4 #18
Thank you very much for sharing with us Emile. Your tree sounds beautiful. And your father sounds like a great man. May debm55 Dec 4 #24
Two: the nut bowl and the angel chime decoration. Xavier Breath Dec 4 #19
Oh , Thank you Xavier Breath. I had the angel carousel with the candles . Didn't you just stare at it in wonder? debm55 Dec 4 #27
we had one of those as well. nt yellowdogintexas Dec 5 #80
Thank you yellowdogintexas. I loved it and could watch for hours. debm55 Dec 5 #85
We used to go to a Christmas Party every year. Kids applegrove Dec 4 #20
My dad would take us 3 kids to the VFW Christmas Party Emile Dec 4 #22
Sounds like a riot. What is VFW? applegrove Dec 4 #25
Veterans of Foreign Wars Emile Dec 4 #28
Thank you Emile for sharing with us. I went to the Knights of Columbus party and got a gift. Bless you Emile. debm55 Dec 4 #26
My Dad was a coal miner..... MyOwnPeace Dec 5 #83
Thank you very much, applegrove for sharing with us. I bet it was fun for you. debm55 Dec 4 #42
We did the same, but it was a Kiwanis Christmas party. I'll never forget Cloudhopper Dec 4 #47
Thank you for sharing . Wow that was a huge teddy bear. I got a tin of those hard candies. debm55 Dec 4 #50
HAHAHHAHAHha Sounds great. Thank you applegrove. debm55 Dec 5 #86
My family never did huge, elaborate, easily-spotted-from-orbit outdoor decorations. Aristus Dec 4 #29
Thank you very much Aristus. I remember people decorating their doors that way. I though it was very nice and festive. debm55 Dec 4 #44
Cookies, cookies, cookies! Raven123 Dec 4 #30
My mom's aunt would make a TON of cookies, all kinds Mad_Dem_X Dec 4 #35
Thank you very much Raven123. Yes, Christmas cookies are the best. debm55 Dec 4 #46
We had a cardboard fireplace Mad_Dem_X Dec 4 #33
HAHAHAHAHHA. Did you have the red brick cardboard one? Thanks Mad_Dem_X debm55 Dec 4 #51
Oh yes! Mad_Dem_X Dec 4 #73
HAHAHHAHAhah. thank you very much for sharing with us.Mad_Dem_X Love it. debm55 Dec 5 #87
My dad would routinely burst into song Mad_Dem_X Dec 4 #37
HAHAHAH. Thank you very much Mad_Dem_X. May your dad's memories be a blessing to you. debm55 Dec 4 #54
I miss him terribly, especially this time of year. Mad_Dem_X Dec 4 #74
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I loved hanging the tinsel. pandr32 Dec 4 #39
Thank you very much, pandr32. My brother would do the same. It made my Father very angry. debm55 Dec 4 #71
We had a Lionel train on a platform my dad made some_of_us_are_sane Dec 4 #40
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHHAHA. I am sorry some_of _us _are_sane. but that is sort of funny. debm55 Dec 4 #72
Yes. This. OldBaldy1701E Dec 4 #43
Thank you very much OldBaldy1701E for sharing the manger scene. It is beautiful and carries the memories of your debm55 Dec 4 #45
I remember always having this mix of hard Christmas candy that came in a blue or green foil tin. The brand was Society KitFox Dec 4 #48
Thank you very much, KitFox for sharing the wonderful Christmas Eve events in your home. Excellent. debm55 Dec 4 #64
We had these plastic hanging decorations made from small, round, colored plastic Cloudhopper Dec 4 #49
I remember them. Cloudhopper. We called them popcorn decorations as they were rough. I live in SW PA and they were all debm55 Dec 4 #53
The annual Christmas music album 31st Street Bridge Dec 4 #52
Thank you very much, 31st Street Bridge. debm55 Dec 4 #63
I remember some time before Christmas, awaiting the arrival of the big Sears catalog SheltieLover Dec 4 #55
Thank you, SheltieLover. Did you dog ear or circle the items that you wanted Santa to bring you? debm55 Dec 4 #58
Oh, absolutely. Dog-eared & circled items. Lol SheltieLover Dec 4 #59
HAHAAHAHA Thank you. SheltieLover. debm55 Dec 4 #61
Mr Jingaling ... marble falls Dec 4 #56
HAHAHHAHAHAHA, Thank you very much, marble falls. debm55 Dec 4 #57
Homemade cinnamon bread, rum balls, egg nog and homemade fruitcake. mwmisses4289 Dec 4 #60
Thank you very much, mwmisses4289. That sounds wonderful. debm55 Dec 4 #62
Popcorn balls. Sneederbunk Dec 4 #65
Thank you very much, Sneederbunk. And you could make more popcorn to string on the tree. debm55 Dec 4 #69
Plywood/painted cut outs ballardgirl Dec 4 #66
HAHAHHAH. Thank you very much, ballardgirl for sharing your memory. debm55 Dec 4 #70
That pink light bulb, pushing a candied yam around on my plate (I hate yams, even candied ones), and Mom's wonderful Dorothy V Dec 4 #67
Thank you so much for sharing your Christmas memories with us Dorothy V. Love you, deb. debm55 Dec 4 #68
One of my grandmother's churches had Christmas caroling every year with a party at the church afterwards. CrispyQ Dec 4 #76
Thank you very much for the Christmas caroling. In 8th grade, my homeroom went caroling. You don't see that any more. debm55 Dec 4 #77
Velvet dresses for girls and a velvet vest and dress pants and white shirt for boys. debm55 Dec 4 #78
My mom and I had a real adventure assembling my sister's Barbie Dream House yellowdogintexas Dec 5 #81
Wow, What a great celebration you had and all the memories. Thank you yellowdogintexas. for sharing with us. debm55 Dec 5 #88
I guess my Mom making various Christmas decorations almost every year... electric_blue68 Dec 5 #82
Thank you for sharing electric_blue68. I have some of the styrofoam ball balls with the pins holding the beads, sequins debm55 Dec 5 #89
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