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SpankMe

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24. With respect, it's not my own characterization
Mon Mar 30, 2026, 09:06 PM
Mar 30

As evidenced by many comments in this thread, a number of people find single male adults "of a certain age" visiting Disney alone - without ever having had children that they took to Disneyland - to be somewhat odd. However, note the last paragraph in my post where I say "I agree that adults should be free to visit Disney without kids without stigma...". Apparently you didn't read that far.

My wife and I are Disney fans and had annual passes before the price went astronomical. We'd go the Disney Anaheim just to have dinner at Pirates of the Caribbean, watch a parade and some fireworks, and then leave. This was before kids. But, we were in our early to mid-20's and visited Disney many, many times as kids. We double dated there with other Disney fans and would occasionally point out Disneyland visitors who seemed out of place. Most of the time, this was lone males in their 40's or thereabouts wearing Disney attire that seemed inappropriate for adults, such as ill-fitting short Micky Mouse shorts, non-black mouse ears with their name glittered on it and other themed bling - like hand-held props that didn't match other elements of the costuming - that just struck us as strange at worst and tone-deaf at best. There was a creepy feel to it.

I don't deny that childless adults visit the Magic Kingdom, and I'm fine with that. But don't slam people who find that to be odd in certain particular cases.

All that said, I reacted to this story before I know all of the facts. Graham was visiting a high end restaurant in a resort location outside of the Magic Kingdom park itself. He was with other adults and was wearing a suit. TMZ's characterization of his visit and the pile--on by detractors is unfair. Frankly, I'm not eve sure I have a beef with him visiting there during the TSA shutdown. I'm sure congressional members of both parties still went out to nice dinners with their families or business associates during the budget impasse. We libs might be overplaying our hand on this one - as much as I HATE Lindsey Graham.

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Newsom is developing a pattern TommyT139 Mar 30 #1
How is calling Graham a "diva" homophobic? Irish_Dem Mar 30 #2
Say what you want, of course. TommyT139 Mar 30 #5
It's a term meant for a woman, not a man Polybius Mar 30 #25
It's misgendering. That's how. iemanja Tuesday #32
I have never encountered "diva" as a gay slur Miguelito Loveless Mar 30 #9
There you go! "Goddess" ... it's mis-gendering him and using it to denigrate him. QueerDuck Mar 30 #12
You went straight to the original meaning from the Italian Miguelito Loveless Mar 30 #14
When such great care is taken to split hairs to justify misgendering ... QueerDuck Mar 30 #16
IIRC - Mohammed Ali used the term "niggardly" on the Dick Cavett Show just to bring up a point. rubbersole Mar 30 #18
Do you want everyone to be nice to Lindsay Graham. He has been the greatest advocate of this war. Let's not offend him Doodley Mar 30 #28
One can oppose a war hawk without using bigoted language... QueerDuck Tuesday #31
If we look at some dictionary definitions of the word diva, we will see it is in use as a gender neutral Doodley Tuesday #35
It's not about Lindsay Graham iemanja Tuesday #33
Explain how using words in the way described in dictionaries is bigotry? Doodley Tuesday #37
It's misgendering iemanja Tuesday #39
No, it's not misgendering, based on the dictionary examples in the post you are replying too. It can be a gender-neutral Doodley Tuesday #40
Maybe he should have just posted a sternly worded message?!?! Bengus81 Mar 30 #11
Sorry. I'm not buying the microaggession argument johnnyplankton Mar 30 #17
isn't there a rule around about sit flinging? SalamanderSleeps Mar 30 #26
Newsom is attacking a war mongering, Trump stooge. You seem to be attacking Newsom. Doodley Mar 30 #27
Good for Governor Newsom, Graham is a bit of a Diva as far as I can tell. wcmagumba Mar 30 #3
Collecting his payoff. twodogsbarking Mar 30 #4
"Why is an old man with no kids going to Disney?" Ray Bruns Mar 30 #6
searching poozwah Mar 30 #7
There are many people who go to Disney World without kids LetMyPeopleVote Mar 30 #13
There's some context others see here that you may be missing SpankMe Mar 30 #15
There are many persons without children who enjoy Disney. LetMyPeopleVote Mar 30 #22
With respect, it's not my own characterization SpankMe Mar 30 #24
The difference is Graham is a creep. Would you trust him with your kids? Doodley Mar 30 #29
Who cares? iemanja Tuesday #34
He eggs on Trump to go to war. American servicemen are killed. Schoolgirls are killed or maimed. We are on the brink of Doodley Tuesday #36
Which has nothing to do with his going to Disney. iemanja Tuesday #38
Graham's excuse sounds about as believeable as the one given by Cancun Cruz a few years back rpannier Mar 30 #8
I would like to see him grilled, like a hamberder, well done. twodogsbarking Mar 30 #10
Disney Ad Campaign Parody 2na fisherman Mar 30 #19
He's eating at a restaurant called Chef Mickey's chernabogg Mar 30 #20
He is a disgrace to mankind. Just like his hero. nt City Lights Mar 30 #21
WTF! Buddyzbuddy Mar 30 #23
When you're telling your constituents to send their sons & daughters to fight in Iran dflprincess Mar 30 #30
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