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44. In 1992 my friend was accused by her girlfriend of rape. It was a flashpoint on campus

Fri Dec 13, 2024, 05:56 PM

Dec 13

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because there had been such a focus on rape awareness with an emphasis on violence by men — here was a case involving two women (shocking)! They were engaging in consensual sex and at one point, the girlfriend asked my friend to stop. My friend said because of her position, she could NOT (edited) hear the request. I was interviewed as I was in the suite at the time and didn’t hear any kind of disturbance/argument/etc.

There was a disciplinary hearing, and I think they basically decided it was unintentional — I don’t believe there was any action taken. I still wonder if it would have been handled differently if my friend or the girlfriend had been male.

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Thanks Crystal. Clouds Passing Dec 13 #13

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I had to stay out of the discussions here back then GusBob Dec 13 #22

In 1992 my friend was accused by her girlfriend of rape. It was a flashpoint on campus LauraInLA Dec 13 #44

Do you mean "could not"? Bernardo de La Paz Dec 14 #49

Eeek! Yes, thanks for catching it! LauraInLA Dec 14 #50

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Different story. That was UVa. mahatmakanejeeves Dec 13 #36

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Okay, fine... 18 years later I stand corrected Blue_Tires Dec 13 #39

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so she basically ruins several peoples lives with her lies and now, almost 20 years later Javaman Dec 13 #41

I agree with the sentiment, but suing her would just waste a bunch of the plaintiffs' money on lawyers fees. LauraInLA Dec 13 #45

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