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DFW

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34. I could make the move. My wife cannot.

Sun Jan 17, 2016, 10:47 AM

Jan 2016

Her mom is still alive and well in a tiny town in northwestern Germany. She is the only surviving grandparent of our girls, and my wife is her only surviving child. At 88, she can't move. Plus all my wife' friends are now in our area, many within a few meters of where we live. She has been living full time in our little town north of Düsseldorf for half her life now. It's a town both our children have always considered their first home. I would have nothing against moving away from the German and EU bureaucracy, but I can't ask her to give her life up just like that. Should that change, I will polish up my Schwyzerdüütsch and after 40 years of occasional visits for work, I can already handle most of it, though don't ask me to be fluent in Uri or Appenzell Mundart just yet!

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