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MineralMan

(151,729 posts)
3. I don't know many people like those you described..
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 11:19 AM
21 hrs ago

Lucky me, I guess.

I'll talk to them if they want me to. Mostly, though, they aren't interested. I have some relatives who are or were Trumpers. Can't talk to them about politics. "How are the kids?" "How's the new job going?" That I can do.

If they tell me they're voting for Democrats, though, I'll congratulate them for figuring it out. But I don't try to convert Trumpers. It's a waste of my time.

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I'll NEVER FORGET, that's for sure (in some views, that means I never really forgive, so... ) hlthe2b 21 hrs ago #1
Forgive? Perhaps ProfessorGAC 21 hrs ago #2
Not at this stage of the game. Junipercity 19 hrs ago #88
I'm afraid Mad_Machine76 9 hrs ago #126
I don't know many people like those you described.. MineralMan 21 hrs ago #3
My late Mother was a huge Trump supporter from the instant he came on the political scene. COL Mustard 19 hrs ago #57
Very sad for you... some_of_us_are_sane 18 hrs ago #113
No HappyH 21 hrs ago #4
NO durablend 21 hrs ago #5
I cut myself loose from those people long ago. Ritabert 21 hrs ago #6
Talk to me after all their shit is cleaned up Alpeduez21 21 hrs ago #7
NOPE. n/t Coventina 21 hrs ago #8
NOPE! bluestarone 21 hrs ago #9
I dont care about your past so much as SSJVegeta 21 hrs ago #10
Fuck trump voters.. thomski64 21 hrs ago #11
HELL to the NO IzzaNuDay 21 hrs ago #12
Forgiveness benefits me, so yes. catrose 21 hrs ago #13
I can forgive those that solely got their info from right wing media only to discover other points of view AStern 21 hrs ago #14
They don't even exist in the same (real) world underpants 20 hrs ago #40
Have a buddy who is a Trumper/Fox guy FHRRK1 18 hrs ago #103
That's a reasonable response... some_of_us_are_sane 18 hrs ago #116
Fuck them! 3_Limes 21 hrs ago #15
Nope. Fuck em. CanonRay 21 hrs ago #16
Nope Quiet Em 21 hrs ago #17
Only if obnoxiousdrunk 20 hrs ago #18
Fuck no! Aristus 20 hrs ago #19
It Feels Like an Awfully Big Stretch to Actually Forgive Unthinking, Mentally-lazy Propaganda Addicts The Roux Comes First 20 hrs ago #20
I feel sorry for their delusions... Soul_of_Wit 20 hrs ago #21
People who voted for Trump after hearing him brag about grabbing women and watching him mock the disabled reporter? dalton99a 20 hrs ago #22
Absolutely not. MontanaMama 20 hrs ago #23
No. LoisB 20 hrs ago #24
No -- they are enemies to all free and peace loving people Ponietz 20 hrs ago #25
no. rampartd 20 hrs ago #26
Easy answer- nope chicoescuela 20 hrs ago #27
I don't think they knew. They have no moral or intellectual compass. They thought Trump was cool. bucolic_frolic 20 hrs ago #28
His appeal to them all was his racism and sexism, and though many Scrivener7 20 hrs ago #29
HELL NO! Chasstev365 20 hrs ago #30
Fuck NO. FoxNewsSucks 20 hrs ago #31
No. Bettie 20 hrs ago #32
Fuck no Aviation Pro 20 hrs ago #33
NEVER! zanana1 20 hrs ago #34
No nt lark 20 hrs ago #35
After a very long time. Punishing has to happen. Blue Full Moon 20 hrs ago #36
No underpants 20 hrs ago #37
Forgive? No way in hell Grim Chieftain 20 hrs ago #38
As citizens, we all have a duty to... BH liberal 20 hrs ago #39
Only if they promise to NEVER VOTE AGAIN! EastBayGuy 20 hrs ago #41
NO. I'm nearer to the end of my life than the beginning and for the remainder of it.. CousinIT 20 hrs ago #42
Hell yes orangecrush 20 hrs ago #43
I'm with you Martin Eden 24 min ago #156
No, especially the ones who voted for Luciferous 20 hrs ago #44
NO Liberal In Red State 20 hrs ago #45
Not really - there's "Friends and Family ".. haele 20 hrs ago #46
HELL NO! Emile 20 hrs ago #47
uhmmm sagetea 20 hrs ago #48
Never, nope, and hell no. kairos12 20 hrs ago #49
Can't forgive yankee87 20 hrs ago #50
Nope vapor2 20 hrs ago #51
They voted for Cancer... Escape 20 hrs ago #52
NO!!!!!! aeromanKC 20 hrs ago #53
After they enabled the destruction of our Democracy, took food from the mouth of babies, end USAID Old-8643 19 hrs ago #54
Yes - On a case by case basis. ihaveaquestion 19 hrs ago #55
My personal take TheProle 19 hrs ago #56
Thanks for the oasis of rational thinking orangecrush 19 hrs ago #70
FUCK that Skittles 4 hrs ago #143
"What matters is course-correction for future generations." Martin Eden 21 min ago #158
Nope, I have distanced myself from them. I will be polite but that's it. Everyone knew the reputation TommieMommy 19 hrs ago #58
They weren't just ignorant. They embraced willful ignorance. DeeDeeNY 19 hrs ago #59
Their embracing of willful ignorance is something La Coliniere 1 hr ago #153
This is a joke, right? Ol Janx Spirit 19 hrs ago #60
It's on an almost case-by-case basis. BobTheSubgenius 19 hrs ago #61
I can forgive but never trust their judgement again kimbutgar 19 hrs ago #62
I have family I love who are trump supporters LuvLoogie 19 hrs ago #63
You perfectly capture the feelings I have toward my MAGA family members. callous taoboy 4 hrs ago #148
Forgive? Dave Id 19 hrs ago #64
Forgiveness drmeow 19 hrs ago #65
I'm perfectly happy to add to the many No votes here. NNadir 19 hrs ago #66
No. hamsterjill 19 hrs ago #67
After three elections involving this asshole? Fuck no. W_HAMILTON 19 hrs ago #68
Nope. MaeScott 19 hrs ago #69
Polls show that MAGA voters still support Trump Kaleva 19 hrs ago #71
NO! virgdem 19 hrs ago #72
Not unless they make SERIOUS reparations Wicked Blue 19 hrs ago #73
NO!!! CaptainTruth 19 hrs ago #74
Depends upon how contrite/sincere they are RussBLib 19 hrs ago #75
Cry me a fucking river, magats. Gaytano70 19 hrs ago #76
Maybe. In about a thousand years (or longer), mwmisses4289 19 hrs ago #77
So we had a former friend of the family turned magat contact us the other day GoodRaisin 19 hrs ago #78
No, I view them the same as rabid nazis who supported Hitler Mysterian 19 hrs ago #79
Good analogy! kentuck 18 hrs ago #94
Can you ever forgive MAGA voters? NO! aggiesal 19 hrs ago #80
I have low tolerance for willfull ignorance. lpbk2713 19 hrs ago #81
No, they still love him. dem4decades 19 hrs ago #82
I feel like it doesn't matter, they've always been there FullySupportDems 19 hrs ago #83
I already have, for the most part Warpy 19 hrs ago #84
I don't know. barbtries 19 hrs ago #85
No. lizardkingjr 19 hrs ago #86
Recommended. H2O Man 19 hrs ago #87
The ones i know i already broke off with long ago. Figarosmom 19 hrs ago #89
I am lucky enough not to have any Trumpers in my immediate life. ShazzieB 19 hrs ago #90
No. Never. maspaha 18 hrs ago #91
Let me know how they vote in the next few elections. n/t flvegan 18 hrs ago #92
Yes, if they confess their sin and sincerely ask for forgiveness surfered 18 hrs ago #93
According to the Catholic official Rite of Penance, forgiveness requires penitents to go through four steps: sop 18 hrs ago #95
HELL NO. That is all. Not ever. NEVER!! LSparkle 18 hrs ago #96
Why were they terribly wrong??? rogue emissary 18 hrs ago #97
Maybe I understand forgiveness in a different way. I see at as an inner release of people who have wronged me. PatrickforB 18 hrs ago #98
We have our own MAGA-type problem brewing here with Platner. jmbar2 18 hrs ago #99
Actions do speak louder than words... sarisataka 18 hrs ago #108
No freakin way...plus... MiHale 18 hrs ago #100
The primaries tell a different story... lame54 18 hrs ago #101
Forgive? NEVER!!!!! LilElf70 18 hrs ago #102
That is like asking me if I forgive Sirhan Bishara Sirhan or Mark David Chapman DFW 18 hrs ago #104
No. Just as I will never forgive the "butter emails" crowd, or the "she's a warmonger" crowd... QueerDuck 18 hrs ago #105
I know not a single one with regrets. maxsolomon 18 hrs ago #106
Despite all of the strong denials sarisataka 18 hrs ago #107
Willful ignorance is not forgivable. 3825-87867 18 hrs ago #109
100% that!!! oasis 9 hrs ago #127
Nope. Because I will not believe any of them are actually appropriately sorry. RockRaven 18 hrs ago #110
No, I don't mgardener 18 hrs ago #111
To me, there is a difference between regret and remorse. Of those people who regret their alwaysinasnit 18 hrs ago #112
NO CharleyDog 18 hrs ago #114
Bodily autonomy, & the abortion issue, I was already having difficulty socializing with republicans. CrispyQ 18 hrs ago #115
They will have to deserve it, and then ask for forgiveness biophile 17 hrs ago #117
If we can't unite against the tyrants, oligarchs, policies, etc. that harm us, snot 17 hrs ago #118
Exactly Martin Eden 10 min ago #159
no ShepKat 16 hrs ago #119
Do not underestimate how much THEY HATE US ThoughtCriminal 11 hrs ago #120
Many still support him pattyloutwo 11 hrs ago #121
Sadly, two of my three my kids voted for Trump hurl 10 hrs ago #122
No! There are obligations for the privilege of living in a democracy Attilatheblond 10 hrs ago #123
No, massive damage has already been done mvd 9 hrs ago #124
I'm not sure Mad_Machine76 9 hrs ago #125
Fool you once, shame on you Johonny 9 hrs ago #128
Forgive? It's really not appropriate, for me, anyway. vanlassie 9 hrs ago #129
Nope. They may be disappointed, but they are still MAGA/Tea Party/3%/Militia/Bugaloo/Proud Boys and ... marble falls 9 hrs ago #130
NOPE. buzzycrumbhunger 9 hrs ago #131
It's like a complete identity thing for them and so I don't know if it'll change oldmanlynn 9 hrs ago #132
yeh , NO dweller 8 hrs ago #133
Nope. The racist morons knew what they were voting for. Dave Bowman 8 hrs ago #134
F-'EM! czarjak 8 hrs ago #135
HELL TO THE NO! Blue Owl 7 hrs ago #136
Sure, I can forgive Fred and Barney Beringia 7 hrs ago #137
No forgiveness unless they actively work to try to undo the VTderry 6 hrs ago #138
"They have deep regret and they want off the ship"? red dog 1 6 hrs ago #139
They're not asking, and I'm not offering. Mike Niendorff 6 hrs ago #140
No. sakabatou 6 hrs ago #141
NO Skittles 4 hrs ago #142
It depends on the reason for their remorse DFW 4 hrs ago #144
it's not just America they damaged Skittles 4 hrs ago #145
There is that as well, but they cannot vote in our elections DFW 4 hrs ago #146
Perhaps when my MAGA family members are on their death beds. callous taoboy 4 hrs ago #147
Depends on when they redeemed themselves Polybius 3 hrs ago #149
Forgive those who know not what they do Martin Eden 2 hrs ago #150
No no a thousand times no. Never forgive, never forgetj Trueblue1968 1 hr ago #151
Absolutely. mahina 1 hr ago #152
I live in a mixed Florida neighborhood PCB66 1 hr ago #154
No- Real harm was done tulipsandroses 38 min ago #155
Never. All 87 million+ voters need to "take one for the team." Efilroft Sul 21 min ago #157
Anyone remotely rationale would have concluded long ago that Donald Trump is unfit for the job of president. waterwatcher123 7 min ago #160
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