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Figarosmom

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14. Why put on a brave front?

Tue Mar 24, 2026, 11:35 PM

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You've got to be pissed and scared. You should be able to vent those flings instead of denying them. Scream and stomp. Do what makes you feel better.

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Almost 4 years with no issues but tonight it's back. [View all] xmas74 Tuesday OP

Healing vibes on the way to you. SheltieLover Tuesday #1

Sending you warmth and healing vibes Lifeafter70 Tuesday #2

And MORE healing vibes heading your way! calimary Tuesday #3

You did it before. You got what it takes. marble falls Tuesday #4

Some love and hugs to you, xmas. sheshe2 Tuesday #5

So sorry, xmas74. Holding you in my heart. Stay strong. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Tuesday #6

Oh no leftstreet Tuesday #7

No need for a brave front here. We are here for when you need to cry, scream or vent. Marie Marie Tuesday #8

I'm so sorry, Xmas74. HeartsCanHope Tuesday #9

Sending DU vibes and hope for your healing Wicked Blue Tuesday #10

You're a survivor with another battle to fight and we're here for you so keep in touch ((🫶)) Deuxcents Tuesday #11

That absolutely sucks. Especially making it four years cancer free. I'm a survivor Greybnk48 Tuesday #12

You're strong mr715 Tuesday #13

Why put on a brave front? Figarosmom Tuesday #14

My daughter is in her twenties xmas74 Yesterday #33

I had wondered the same thing as Figarosmom 70sEraVet Yesterday #46

It is a silent sneaky monster, I send my support and wishes for you to beat it back again, ShazamIam Tuesday #15

I am so sorry for your bad news Xmas74. JMCKUSICK Tuesday #16

I'm sorry to hear this. Beat it again for another four years, then another four, then another... LoisB Tuesday #17

I'm So Sorry, xmas! 💔 ☮️🌻🕯️🕊️💜 Cha Yesterday #18

I'm sorry. area51 Yesterday #19

I'm sorry, xmas74 Solly Mack Yesterday #20

Easy for me to say... BurnDoubt Yesterday #21

🫂 mwmisses4289 Yesterday #22

"" AllaN01Bear Yesterday #23

I'm sorry cate94 Yesterday #24

Ugh holding you in the light r�is�n_dubh Yesterday #25

So sorry blueknight73 Yesterday #26

I am glad you said it. murielm99 Yesterday #27

May you be surrounded by Emerald Green Healing Light. Bread and Circuses Yesterday #28

..... Skittles Yesterday #29

Oh xmas74, scream away! I am so sorry you got hit with this after four brave years of holding this monster at bay! We KitFox Yesterday #30

love + light + peaceful healing vibes sent to you -- fierywoman Yesterday #31

You will be in my prayers LetMyPeopleVote Yesterday #32

I am so very sorry to read this. irisblue Yesterday #34

Well, damn Randomthought Yesterday #35

Oh xmas74, so sorry you are dealing with it again. summer_in_TX Yesterday #36

Sending strength to you democrank Yesterday #37

Ovarian cancer is one of the evil, silent ones DFW Yesterday #38

I so hope you quickly clear it and have robust health. Big hugz. Celerity Yesterday #39

Damn, cancer sucks. Sending healing vibes and hope it clears out quickly. ms liberty Yesterday #40

This is tough. Prayers. Joinfortmill Yesterday #41

We can hear whatever truth you want to share duhneece Yesterday #42

Sending strength (and patience) your way - OddMom20 Yesterday #43

Disappointing news for you and your family. Hope it has not spread beyond the ovaries. Fla Dem Yesterday #44

I had a supracervical hysterectomy in April 2022 xmas74 22 hrs ago #67

That devil seems to always find a way. Sending positive thoughts your way. Fla Dem 19 hrs ago #70

I'm so sorry. yardwork Yesterday #45

Damn xmas74, you do WHATEVER gets you through this!!!! a kennedy Yesterday #47

I'm so sorry. You should do this however you want to. It's not about anyone else. Maru Kitteh Yesterday #48

So sorry Mz Pip Yesterday #49

I hear you. mercuryblues Yesterday #50

Yet another case of cancer!! Playingmantis Yesterday #51

I'm so sorry, xmas. My mother had ovarian, and I know brer cat Yesterday #52

Surrounding you in light. Nanjeanne Yesterday #53

Love and virtual hugs from me to you, xmas 74. generalbetrayus Yesterday #54

I am so, so sorry you are having to deal with this again. Trueblue Texan Yesterday #55

I'm so sorry! barbtries Yesterday #56

We're here for you so please lean on your DU family. Nevilledog Yesterday #57

Something to give you heart to carry on Xmas popsdenver Yesterday #58

cancer return maliaSmith Yesterday #59

I'm sorry that you are going through this Danmel Yesterday #60

Damn!! I am sorry to see this.. mountain grammy Yesterday #61

Scream here all you need to. stage left Yesterday #62

I am so sorry cally Yesterday #63

K&R spanone Yesterday #64

Many of us are with you. Sparkly 23 hrs ago #65

Cancer is awful mvd 23 hrs ago #66

All best wishes for you and you're brave regardless. Passages 21 hrs ago #68

You be you. Dear_Prudence 21 hrs ago #69

I am sorry to hear this!...Best wishes for a quick treatment and recovery xmas. peacebuzzard 18 hrs ago #71

I'm so sorry, xmas74 Laurelin 17 hrs ago #72