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jfz9580m

(17,096 posts)
15. It was a depressing story
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 11:03 PM
Wednesday

This is why I have endured even some of my more annoying colleagues (whose judgement I disagreed with - being a tech hater from way back).
Look at the kinds of truly horrifying skeletons even people like Cesar Chavez have. Mahatma Gandhi was the same. He used to do unacceptable things to his family members.

I remember thinking sardonically during some of the worst years of my life if some of those forward thinking crews out there have considered lame metaphoric analogies that would in this …


At least they just have horrible judgements about how “Tech will Save the World!”. That was one of President Obama’s weaknesses imo. He was never sleazy or irresponsible. But he did have this sort of limpid trust in tech which those of us battle-hardened by real world exposure to EECS and its bs would be less susceptible to.


How could anyone actually irl be that daft even back in 2011? That is an extra wide-eyed take on tech coupled with paranoid levels of suspicion of random disheveled stoners.

They (EECS etc) defrauded me early on irisblue!

Looking back over my life I have been relatively lucky in always being in that “in the dead middle” contingent, lacking any desire to climb, but infuriated at the thought of dropping lower.

So I have ended up being defrauded more than harassed or taken advantage of in these ways. I am sick of being defrauded but I suppose it is a kind of fortune to at least be able to avoid any kind of sexual exploitation. That would be unthinkable.

Whatever happens, no human (female or male), should ever implicitly accept a new social or professional contract that is significantly inferior to the one preceding it.

I bring it up because sexual harassment and sexual creepiness are a zero tolerance area imo. Most women would agree. And what this story and others like it highlight is how shocking it is when highly respected figures like these have skeletons.

It is one reason I like science and medicine. On average fewer perverts to contend with. Generally most scientists I know are like President Obama.
They may be susceptible to a type of poor judgement call - like respecting Larry Summers or Facebook/Google back in 2011. But well that is a forgivable error if you see it as an error. Though really..with Larry Summers…

Google otoh has no shortage of perverts .

In a way, I guess it is kind of heartwarming when things are tacky, sleazy and generally disgraceful, but at least no sexual abuse-or God..I shrilly declaim that -surely no one anyone would know would be worse than..well these like a disastrously negligent university admin I once came across (also EECS - that field is a threat to civil society as we knew it).


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It really sucks how many men abuse women and children EdmondDantes_ Wednesday #1
Men are not unique in this. Women are participatory, too. littlemissmartypants Wednesday #13
Sexual abuse is not limited by any gender or race. Melon Wednesday #18
So, it's not so bad because some woman someplace did the same? Srkdqltr 4 hrs ago #26
Let's suppose that someone, an infant or a toddler... littlemissmartypants 3 hrs ago #28
In a spoken world the tone of voice used is usually that smug, gotcha voice that makes it sound that because a woman did Srkdqltr 2 hrs ago #29
I don't really understand what you're talking about. And you didn't answer the question... littlemissmartypants 2 hrs ago #30
But that's the gotcha question. Does it exonerate the man if the woman does it also? Srkdqltr 1 hr ago #31
It's a direct yes or no question. And you still haven't answered it. littlemissmartypants 1 hr ago #32
Dolores Huerta...said Chavez raped and pressured her into sex in the 1960s, breaking decades of silence irisblue Wednesday #2
It was a depressing story jfz9580m Wednesday #15
... Solly Mack Wednesday #3
Enough is enough mcar Wednesday #4
I am with you, mcar. sheshe2 Wednesday #6
sad thing is Skittles Wednesday #5
At 86, I grew up in an era... oldsoldierfadingfast Wednesday #17
I absolutely do understand the gals (and guys) who stayed silent Skittles Yesterday #19
Thanks so much Congresswoman Crockett. littlemissmartypants Wednesday #7
Amen, sister. Joinfortmill Wednesday #8
DURec leftstreet Wednesday #9
I love Congresswoman Crockett's statement hamsterjill Wednesday #10
I was disappointed... 2naSalit Wednesday #14
K&R spanone Wednesday #11
K & R Permanut Wednesday #12
Good for Rep Crockett jfz9580m Wednesday #16
There's now talk among our city leaders Mme. Defarge 23 hrs ago #20
Excellent statement, Jasmine Crockett... Cha 20 hrs ago #21
Thank you, Cha. sheshe2 15 hrs ago #22
Also, no matter how rich!! AKwannabe 13 hrs ago #23
I hope this gets a full investigation. Buzz cook 12 hrs ago #24
Thanks for Jasmine's statement ReRe 4 hrs ago #25
ReRe, it's good to see you. sheshe2 3 hrs ago #27
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