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vanlassie

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47. Indeed. I considered, then declined several times over two years

Sun Mar 15, 2026, 05:02 PM

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to let go of my anger and resentment and blame for my ex before I was ready to see the full cost of holding on to it. It was the price my children were paying that helped me get there. When you “GET” the full cost vs the always small benefit of getting to be (more right, getting sympathy, being virtuous) you see it’s a no brainer. You see when you see. If you are willing.

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I am not obligated to forgive regretful trump voters. So there's this video floating the internets [View all] tulipsandroses Yesterday OP

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Some acts are beyond forgiveness PJMcK Yesterday #3

Because Kamala had a funny laugh! Thunderbeast 23 hrs ago #25

Hopeless batch of idiots CountAllVotes 23 hrs ago #26

Awwww her feelings are hurt durablend Yesterday #4

What brought about the change of heart? Demobrat Yesterday #5

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I was talking a guy today that was a big Trump doc03 Yesterday #8

Likewise. taxi 23 hrs ago #14

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If forgiveness is what is desired... Morbius Yesterday #10

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According to the most recent notice from the USGS. . . Collimator 23 hrs ago #13

You voted for Trump because you thought the sh*t would happen to other people. Intractable Yesterday #12

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Precious. n/t flvegan 23 hrs ago #18

Not about hate BunnyMcGee 23 hrs ago #27

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Define 'better' Ruby the Liberal 11 hrs ago #44

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And she's only coming around to realizing it now? calimary 23 hrs ago #21

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What is she... skypilot 23 hrs ago #23

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My question is..... BeneteauBum 22 hrs ago #29

Absolute forgiveness is on a different path than most of us. Prairie_Seagull 22 hrs ago #30

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Sending healing vibes. Joinfortmill 22 hrs ago #34

It was about her Keepthesoulalive 22 hrs ago #32

She seems to be unbelievably self centered. Joinfortmill 22 hrs ago #33

... Dave Bowman 22 hrs ago #36

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No you aren't EdmondDantes_ 14 hrs ago #43

Yes. vanlassie 9 hrs ago #45

Very true EdmondDantes_ 9 hrs ago #46

Indeed. I considered, then declined several times over two years vanlassie 5 hrs ago #47

if you've seen the light, good for you, but you can still go FUCK YOURSELF Skittles 5 hrs ago #48