General Discussion

And forgiving does not mean you have to speak to them at all. You have to acknowledge the ways you have reacted to, been affected by, held them in distain, allowed their behavior to affect you negatively, and so on. This will show you the cost you have incurred by your own choices. If that cost is too high for you, you can choose to let it/them go.
I make it sound easy in some ways, and in some ways it is. You do it when you decide to.