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Bettie

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74. I'm sorry to hear this....

Fri Feb 13, 2026, 04:12 PM

21 hrs ago

It's got to be so hard, you want to be strong and positive for your partner, but it can be so overwhelming to try to keep it all compartmentalized...and exhausting.

I hope it all goes well for her and that you are able to find a way through it all as well.

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