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nilram

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72. Work feels like an anchor to a world that is now out of control.

Fri Feb 13, 2026, 03:38 PM

22 hrs ago

Let go of it for a while and hold onto your wife's hand. It sounds like they're kind people and. you'll still have a chair at that table going forward.

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